Working on social skills this summer
May 30, 2012 at 1:22 pm
(This post was last modified: May 30, 2012 at 1:23 pm by zentor.)
This last year at the age of 23, I feel like I have woken up from a dream and been talking all my life without ever thinking.
And now when i conversate - i see some of the awkard things i say - but when i say them, i dont get any flags in my brain - and it seems normal and i dont notice til after i say it.
ie: in my game i joined a "RP" guild, and was talking with the leader. and was saying how my old guild was always putting down people who were of "lower rank in guild" and stuff. Then i realised this was another RP guild - and went by the same rules of rank system...and i was like, ugh g2g.
And if im like talking to a girl, ill just talk, but when i look back at the texts i am so hyper, like messages full of LOL and !!!!
and i come off so strong and desperate - it sucks.
I love talking to people, but I always say the wrong thing. ie: ill be talking to a christian, and ill say something that they dont support, and then realise it AFTER i say it....can yall understand where i am coming from and what i am trying to say?
And now when i conversate - i see some of the awkard things i say - but when i say them, i dont get any flags in my brain - and it seems normal and i dont notice til after i say it.
ie: in my game i joined a "RP" guild, and was talking with the leader. and was saying how my old guild was always putting down people who were of "lower rank in guild" and stuff. Then i realised this was another RP guild - and went by the same rules of rank system...and i was like, ugh g2g.
And if im like talking to a girl, ill just talk, but when i look back at the texts i am so hyper, like messages full of LOL and !!!!
and i come off so strong and desperate - it sucks.
I love talking to people, but I always say the wrong thing. ie: ill be talking to a christian, and ill say something that they dont support, and then realise it AFTER i say it....can yall understand where i am coming from and what i am trying to say?
