When I walked out of the kitchen five years ago and found my partner of five years frantically closing the windows he had open on Ashleymadison.com, it permanently changed the life I thought I had known. Looking back, ashleymadison was just a symptom of a much larger problem: our relationship was dead.
There are so many things that cause people to stray... just being human is one. We are essentially just animals, after all. The thing is, though, being human comes with reasoning skills. I'm not telling you not to cheat (I do think not cheating is in your best interest, and your kid's), but, like Zen asked, think about how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot.
If things seem exciting now with this other chick, think about how exciting they'll be when your wife finds out. Is it worth it? Maybe instead of straying, have a convo with your wife. If you can't do that, you should start thinking about more permanent solutions that have nothing to do with cheating.
Just my 2 cents. Good luck
There are so many things that cause people to stray... just being human is one. We are essentially just animals, after all. The thing is, though, being human comes with reasoning skills. I'm not telling you not to cheat (I do think not cheating is in your best interest, and your kid's), but, like Zen asked, think about how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot.
If things seem exciting now with this other chick, think about how exciting they'll be when your wife finds out. Is it worth it? Maybe instead of straying, have a convo with your wife. If you can't do that, you should start thinking about more permanent solutions that have nothing to do with cheating.
Just my 2 cents. Good luck
