(March 14, 2012 at 2:19 pm)Doubting Thomas Wrote: The problem is that it's a small town of close-minded religious conservatives, so I really don't need everyone to know that I'm an atheist. Not that I expect the priest to go around telling everyone, but you know how news just happens to spread in a small town.
IF it bothers you ,and you cannot or will not change and she keeps sniping the only viable option is to move.
Perhaps mention this to your mother in law. (then she will not see her daughter or grandchildren)
I doubt she would grasp the notion that you have no obligation to meet her expectations.
I don't suppose it's possible to get he priest on YOUR side? Or is he as ignorant and stupid as your ma law seems?
Of course ,you can always tell her to mind her own business. I did,to mine,more than once.