Been married 13 years here with two kids. I don't think there's anyone who's been married that long who hasn't felt bored in their marriage once in a while. It's just simply hard to keep romance alive (especially with small children) and to keep things fresh when you already know everything about the person you're with. Plus, we're fighting biology because I believe it's in men's nature to find multiple women attractive. Hell, even Pat Robertson said that it's a man's nature to cheat.
I find many women attractive, but I don't let on to my wife about it. She has body image issues and seems to not understand male sexuality. She would get jealous of me looking even though I have no intention on touching. She doesn't even like me looking at porn.
However, I would never cheat. I could see how someone would be tempted if they were in a totally shitty relationship (or if they were in a sexless marriage), but in that case better to end the marriage or relationship before starting a new one.
I find many women attractive, but I don't let on to my wife about it. She has body image issues and seems to not understand male sexuality. She would get jealous of me looking even though I have no intention on touching. She doesn't even like me looking at porn.
However, I would never cheat. I could see how someone would be tempted if they were in a totally shitty relationship (or if they were in a sexless marriage), but in that case better to end the marriage or relationship before starting a new one.
Christian apologetics is the art of rolling a dog turd in sugar and selling it as a donut.
