refuting misconceptions:1-women in Islam

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Also, if you have to wait a year and she is still ruining the family, what good is a toothbrush beating going to do? Why not just get a divorce with the beating?

i mentioned this in my first post but i will clarify it more.its not the physical impact of the hitting as u can see if it cause even a little pain u r the bad guy not her.and as i see if u r getting a divorce its not fair to do it without a final warning.divorce is not that easy in Islam thts why there is a lot of steps u have to do before getting divorce and i see it is very wise and give u a long time to get the relation with ur wife in the right way again.some of u may still not seeing what am trying to say and i will tell u what i do in such a situation i write a little note about it and keep it in mind and during ur life u may see a situations that will make u have more understanding