your views on modern day porn consumption

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Porn is great. Mostly I don't really use it when I don't have a girlfriend though. If I'm seeing someone, I don't really bother with porn. Also those studies are always worded a certain way to try to make porn seem like it's having more of an affect then it is. There has never been a study that shows that porn has any significant effect on sexual assault. However the language in the anti-porn articles always attempts to imply that, like with this bit you quoted:

They are trying to imply there is a link between porn and violence towards women. However there is none. The reality is that porn is healthy and normal for both sexes. Most women that I've dated or have been close enough friends with to talk about such things, watch and masturbate to porn. What do they even mean by attitudes supporting violence towards women? If there is not actual increase in violence towards women (as there isn't) then it's a totally meaningless statement. Obviously whatever those attitudes (they certainly aren't clear in that article) they don't actually increase violence against women, otherwise the headline would be 'porn increases violence against women.'

The only thing of significance is that college age women are less sexually satisfied if their partner watches porn. That's a dubious stat at best, since it relies on hearsay but probably true, not because of the porn in and of itself but rather because simply because the man's sexual energy is going somewhere else other then his partner.

Also it's good to have you back.

That's good that you normally don't use porn while you have a girlfriend. 

I know there's been women here who have said their husbands look at it and they don't care, but it's very different for me. I would feel devastated and betrayed if my husband had any sort of porn habit. It would make me feel inadequate and like a violation of something sacred and special that is supposed to be shared exclusively between us. But then again, that comes with the territory of having very different views of sexuality.

I'm not really doing it to make my girlfriend feel better though, she's not the kind of person who cares. I'm just doing it because I only have so much sexual energy and having sex is more fun that jerking off. I think there is a problem with your kind of thinking though, sexual energy has to go somewhere. So in time when people are not close to one another or one person just isn't in the mood for sex, it's probably best that that energy is consumed with masturbation and porn. In all reality it's the least harmful outlet, when someone is in a relationship. I think that the idea that someone's sexual drive belongs entirely to another person has been an extremely harmful one. Especially when men get the idea about their wives and girlfriends. Jealousy is the route of a lot of domestic violence.