(November 1, 2015 at 11:27 pm)TheRocketSurgeon Wrote:(November 1, 2015 at 9:13 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: Scare the shit out of you? I think that calls for an "LOL, wut?"
Sorry... just a reference to some BDSM posts. Never been my bag, and frankly it frightens me a little bit that/when people are into that. I am not hating on those who do; I'm sure my particular fetishes are no odder than anyone else's... but the idea not sharing control and/or dealing with pain just defies my entire notion of what it means to be sexual. Again, it was not meant to be anything but a playful and flirtatious remark, and does not indicate a judgment of any sort. I also know that people in those circles do not expect anyone but themselves to enjoy it, nor look down on anyone of my ilk other than to sneer at the idea of "the vanilla folk", a little bit. It was sort of my attempt to play on the "Dark Mistress" archetype... scary as hell but just that much more appealing for it. Sorry if I caused offense; these are just my own personal peccadillos!
Half the forum must terrify you lmao