(December 30, 2015 at 3:31 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: I get what you're saying about objectively viewing yourself; I think I know what my best features are, at least according to the standards of our times. But as you yourself noted, not all features that go into sexiness are physical at all. So even as you objectively note your best features, being confident about presenting your second-best, third-best, and so on features is pretty goddamned hot. I don't think anyone goes out looking for a relationship with someone who needs continual bucking-up. It's great to be honest about oneself, but as with any quality in a person, the continuum of modesty versus immodesty is, for most people, attractive at a happy medium. Stray too far one way or another on the spectrum, and you start looking like a narcissist or a beggar.
I try to stay in that happy medium - if I was that insecure about myself, I wouldn't post in A69. But I'm decent with a camera, and liking my eyes best doesn't stop me from thinking the rest of me is just okay.