(October 15, 2012 at 12:00 pm)festive1 Wrote: It's really not about money (well, not completely anyway). I've known really great parents who could never afford anything other than thrift store clothes and toys, who lived in a shoebox apartment where everyone shared a room, etc, but those kids are great because the got/get all the love and attention they need and deserve. On the flip side, I've also known very wealthy parents who just never spent time with their kids. Those kids had/have problems.
it is not asmuch about the money than about. "Am I ready?"
I certainly dont want it as a suprise, and if ever, with a partner with whom I can imagine to face such a challenge.
I know a lot of women who left or were left by that incompetent twat they had sex with, who wasn`t eaven able to cook or wash his own clothes, or who though a post pregnancy vagina would mutate into some monster with tentacles, out to seek revenge.