RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
October 17, 2020 at 4:35 pm
(October 17, 2020 at 3:40 pm)WinterHold Wrote:(October 17, 2020 at 3:15 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: If you have to resort to a link that means you can't explain it.
The link is to prove what I'm saying; in other words "proving to you that what I'm saying has a real background scientifically".
(October 17, 2020 at 5:18 am)Sal Wrote: Have you met your 'mate' yet, @WinterHold ?
I'm of the opinion that this culture that you have to have a SO to be happy is an insult to all those who are simply happy without a SO. We're all so bloody varied that there are plenty of people who are fine by their lonesome, romantically speaking, and still be a part of a Community. There does exist something called asexuality, ya know.
Asexual people are a minority, I didn't find verses in the Quran that targets them. Actually I think that it's a mental disorder inflicted by shame or hate of sex:
Quote:With regard to sexual orientation categories, asexuality may be argued as not being a meaningful category to add to the continuum, and instead argued as the lack of a sexual orientation or sexuality.[5] Other arguments propose that asexuality is the denial of one's natural sexuality, and that it is a disorder caused by shame of sexuality, anxiety or sexual abuse, sometimes basing this belief on asexuals who masturbate or occasionally engage in sexual activity simply to please a romantic partner.[5][22][24] Within the context of sexual orientation identity politics, asexuality may pragmatically fulfill the political function of a sexual orientation identity category.[27]
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality..._and_cause
For me personally, I didn't find my mate yet. But all I know is that I should keep searching.
Don’t fret. I’m sure he’s out there.
Boru
‘But it does me no injury for my neighbour to say there are twenty gods or no gods. It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg.’ - Thomas Jefferson