RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
October 20, 2020 at 4:24 pm
(This post was last modified: October 20, 2020 at 5:01 pm by WinterHold.)
(October 18, 2020 at 12:49 pm)Abaddon_ire Wrote:(October 18, 2020 at 9:44 am)WinterHold Wrote: Without "work" or "effort" done by the person, it will be impossible and not fair to get any results.
The person must work, and God would see his/her work; if he/she deserves to get rewarded the reward will come from God.
Pre-divorce, my relationship with my ex-wife was very, very far from tranquil. Post- divorce, my life has never been more tranquil.
That you don't know these kind of things makes me think that you are very young, or an incel.
In either case, grow the fuck up.
I don't know about your experience, but I expect that you didn't find the right woman.
If every woman makes every man happy, then there won't be any problems regarding tranquility in mates.
I might be young, but I know very well that I need to choose my mate like I'm choosing a second body of mine; i.e she must be extremely compatible with me, I expect her to do the same and validate me very carefully.
Better than getting involved, having kids, then cut them and scar them for life between fighting parents who aren't compatible.
(October 19, 2020 at 8:45 am)The Grand Nudger Wrote: No. No no no. If you've been a very good boy, and allah approves, you'll find a wife in a bag on your doorstep.
Wives, for their part, love this arrangement. Allah screens out all the assholes who haven't been a very good boy.
God is not an ATM. So many people forget that it's not about God; but it's about us. A Muslims is supposed to be a Muslim because that is "better for their own selves"; look at this verse from the Quran:
Quote:Sura 39, The Quran:
https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/index.php?l=en#...rans=en_sh
( 41 ) Indeed, We sent down to you the Book for the people in truth. So whoever is guided - it is for [the benefit of] his soul; and whoever goes astray only goes astray to its detriment. And you are not a manager over them.
It's not about God, it's about us. If we want what is best for ourselves, then God's way is the way.
