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Getting into relationship advice...
March 10, 2013 at 6:03 pm
So let's say you like a person. What steps should you go through.
Should you try to be a friend first...then one day tell them you want to date? Or should you try to go for the date right away?
The problem with the first, is what if the person get's into relationship during that time (you missed the opportunity).
The problem with the other is that you rushing it it seems and it might make her shy away or scare her off.
I don't know....
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RE: Getting into relationship advice...
March 10, 2013 at 6:20 pm
Different people apparently have different methods in trying to get into a relationship; so do whatever feels right and best for yourself.
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RE: Getting into relationship advice...
March 10, 2013 at 6:29 pm
(This post was last modified: March 10, 2013 at 6:32 pm by paulpablo.)
(March 10, 2013 at 6:03 pm)MysticKnight Wrote: So let's say you like a person. What steps should you go through.
Should you try to be a friend first...then one day tell them you want to date? Or should you try to go for the date right away?
The problem with the first, is what if the person get's into relationship during that time (you missed the opportunity).
The problem with the other is that you rushing it it seems and it might make her shy away or scare her off.
I don't know....
I'd say you become friends first, then the next step inbetween being friendly and going on a date is getting the phone number, then when you're calling her late at night and stuff you can open up topics easily, tell her about a place that has really good food or something and ask her to go there with you and you dont even have to call it a date but you can joke about it being a date.
And yes you can easily miss an opertunity, i once got a girls number then the next day she got a boyfriend, but i kept the number and we both have whatsapp, so a year later after getting her number i got talking to her again on whatsapp by that time she had dumped that boyfriend and i was free to meet up with her and have a good time
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