This is a discussion on Facebook and honestly don't know how to reply to the latest comment in a conversation with a respected Christian Friend. I need a bit of advice at this point. 

Christian Friend Wrote:You're an atheist who chose a path of knowledge and logic. Very admirable man, most atheist i know only chose the way of thinking in order to deal with inner guilt at the physiological level and open up the amount of sexual and explicit behavior they can perform. But i don't see how dictators and monarchs can be compared to "current" religion. You have the freedom to be an atheist, and so does everyone else. Not much of a dictatorship there, and as for the manipulation of children... It's a parents job to manipulate children, you have to manipulate them to be good, have manners, shower, etc... Religion simply provides a backbone for good social behavior. I just don't see atheism working out in the long run for our society. Just in the last century alone over 100 million people died under the direct control of an atheist leader... Mao "purged" 20-40 million human beings, most of them for being Buddhist and Taoist(in estimation). And another 100-200 million would die from famine, and war. Now let's move along to Stalin was estimated to have "purged" 20 or so million people. Stalin was a proud, young and early atheist. Religion isn't perfect, but neither is a belief that there are no true punishments for behavior. You could argue that religion has done the same, but in a major form of organized religion something as violent and as terrible as the atrocities of those men has not been committed in a long time( specifically Christianity)
I Wrote:"I get my limits from a rational consideration of the consequences of my actions. That's how I determine what's moral. I get it from a foundation that says, my actions have an effect on those people around me and theirs have an effect on me and if we are going to live cooperatively and share space we have to recognize that impact. My freedom to swing my arm ends at their nose and that I have no right to impose my will over somebody else's will in a given scenario. I get them from an understanding of reality, not an assertion of authority." - Matt Dillahunty
Critical thought is more important to human progress than metaphysical speculation. Our ancestors relied on these deities when they knew very little about the world, fearing the unknown and if a belief in a deity comforted them; so be it, but these religions continue to have far too much influence in our country and they aren't even necessary, bringing more harm than good to our education and the formation of social patterns. Religion dogma and myths divide people and it clouds their judgment.
“Only 30% of the Ten Commandments coincide with American law. More notably, the three moral instructions are found in every law code in the world, including Muslim, Buddhist, Hindu, and Secular governments.” http://www.examiner.com/article/atheist-...mmandments
We don’t need religion to be moral, loving people. It’s within our means to create progressive, just peaceful societies, guided by reason and free of superstition.
Christian Friend Wrote:Well, do you have an argument for the actions of previous atheist governments? You only answered my first statements. Again, in the last century alone over 50-100 million deaths are tied with major atheist governments, from Atheist Joseph Stalin, Too Mao. And i never said religion was necessary for morals, I stated that it provides a major backbone for the foundation of morality. Yes you might be able to decide morals by logic, but it would be a grand over estimation to assume that an properly and uneducated child's mind could do that same. Now education is much more important than religion, their is simply no argument to that. But I have never stated otherwise. Back to the point though, atheism at major scales has killed many human beings, and it wasn't in ancient times either. It was recent, as in 60 years ago recent. Now i am not saying atheism is bad, but i have a feeling you seek to rid religion of the world. It is my opinion and educated guess that this would not be good for society, based of course... The actions of 3 Atheist leaders. Other than the Purges of Mao and Stalin, you should look into the Reign of Terror event which took place in France. Last major atrocity caused by Christianity(again the religion i am specifically talking about) that i can think of was the Spanish inquisition. But That is Medieval Christianity, Modern Christianity hasn't done anything close to the scale of those Atheist leaders. Those Atheist leaders where modern atheist, just you are. Via the logic of atheism, and the power of a leader. Crimes against humanity seem inevitable. Now yes, morals exist without religion, but can they provided at the major scale of an entire society?
At times of chaos, humans are subjected to emotion, rather than logic.