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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 20, 2016 at 12:21 pm
(October 20, 2016 at 1:14 am)robvalue Wrote: I've put a lot of thought into this, and I'm sorry to say this is final. I'm leaving the forum. I've fought long and hard to keep this place going in the right direction. Up until recently, I feel I have done that. Sadly, despite my best efforts, I have ultimately failed. It's to do with principles I can't compromise on. Unfortunately this means I can no longer stand by the forum, and being here only makes me sad. Apparently there is something coming about this issue so I will say more about it then.
That's not at all a reflection on the wonderful membership here. I think of many of you as friends, and I've been honoured to have been part of the community. You're welcome to keep in contact with me by email or Skype, both [email protected].
If things ever change, I might return. But sadly it's not looking like that's ever going to happen. Thank you all, and goodbye
Oh camon Rob, if there are divergences, fight with reason, do not give up
If you are not carrying weight with the rest of the rest of staff, then gain more metaphorical weight.
Honestly, this makes me sad because:
1: you are leaving
2: as someone that worked hard to keep this forum and made an effort to improve it, you quitting in face of adversity and the way you worded this hurts me.
Oh well, hope you find your place somewhere. Thanks for all, despite that, and I have to be honest, I feel a bit disapointed. Farewell.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 20, 2016 at 12:25 pm
I wish I knew what was going on.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 20, 2016 at 12:25 pm
(October 20, 2016 at 10:47 am)mh.brewer Wrote: (October 20, 2016 at 1:14 am)robvalue Wrote: I've put a lot of thought into this, and I'm sorry to say this is final. I'm leaving the forum. I've fought long and hard to keep this place going in the right direction. Up until recently, I feel I have done that. Sadly, despite my best efforts, I have ultimately failed. It's to do with principles I can't compromise on. Unfortunately this means I can no longer stand by the forum, and being here only makes me sad. Apparently there is something coming about this issue so I will say more about it then.
That's not at all a reflection on the wonderful membership here. I think of many of you as friends, and I've been honoured to have been part of the community. You're welcome to keep in contact with me by email or Skype, both [email protected].
If things ever change, I might return. But sadly it's not looking like that's ever going to happen. Thank you all, and goodbye
Sorry to hear this Rob, I liked you from the very start, never stopped.
I've got no clue what is going on behind the scenes, what the issues are, but I do have some questions for you and maybe others reading this. Don't feel obliged to respond.
I understand that you have principles that you have to live by, we all do (hopefully). That said, I'm not sure why you need to leave because you can't get others to agree to abide by your principles. Can't you just abdicate the throne and not leave the country (step down as a mod/remain in the forum)? Then your principles could be your own and remain in tact. You would no longer feel that you need to fight, except on your own personal level, for your own personal reasons and not for others. Maybe you can't stand by/with the directing/direction of admins/mods, but can't you stand by the forum as a whole? Still contribute, just on an individual basis? Would going back to being a member continue to compromise your principles?
I don't understand why you think you failed. Trying to make a change in a group, that does not get implemented, is not failure. No attempt at making a change would be the failure.
I'll try another slant. If you were in a political position and one of your proposed legislative bills were shoot down in committee, I can see you resigning. But would you stop being a member of the political party or stop voting?
Take some time and think about it. One word of advice, never say never. You don't know what the future may bring and how time may heal. By leaving, some of us may hurt, but you might be hurting yourself more.
I'm not going to plead with you to stay. I will, as always, wish you the best.
QFT.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 20, 2016 at 12:32 pm
(October 20, 2016 at 12:25 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: QFT.
What the fuck does that mean? Do I need to report you? hehehehehehehehe
Being told you're delusional does not necessarily mean you're mental.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 20, 2016 at 12:34 pm
"For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." - Carl Sagan
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 20, 2016 at 12:38 pm
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(October 20, 2016 at 12:32 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: (October 20, 2016 at 12:25 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: QFT.
What the fuck does that mean? Do I need to report you? hehehehehehehehe
Quoted For Truth.
I feel that your whole post was truth [emoji6]
NO DON'T REPORT ME I HAZ NOT BROKEN THE RULES AND I DO NOT WANTZ YOU TO GET INTO TROUBLEZ FOR REPORT SYSTEM ABUSE BECAUSE I LIKE YAS (and rule breaking is bad)!!!
[emoji57]
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 20, 2016 at 12:53 pm
(October 20, 2016 at 12:25 pm)Minimalist Wrote: I wish I knew what was going on.
Take that back. You must not be roped in!
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 20, 2016 at 1:01 pm
(October 20, 2016 at 12:38 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: (October 20, 2016 at 12:32 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: What the fuck does that mean? Do I need to report you? hehehehehehehehe
Quoted For Truth.
I feel that your whole post was truth [emoji6]
NO DON'T REPORT ME I HAZ NOT BROKEN THE RULES AND I DO NOT WANTZ YOU TO GET INTO TROUBLEZ FOR REPORT SYSTEM ABUSE BECAUSE I LIKE YAS (and rule breaking is bad)!!!
[emoji57]
Not quite the whole truth but close enough to the mark. (pun?)
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 20, 2016 at 1:44 pm
(October 20, 2016 at 11:31 am)Losty Wrote: If anyone feels the forum is being run wrong I for one welcome your complaints on it. I don't even mind if you say we are all shite at our jobs. I do think it should be done in a different thread though as that's not what this one is really supposed to be here for.
It's good for us to know what bothers whom and why. It doesn't mean we will reset the rules just to please you but we are paying attention.
I appreciate your sentiment, ma'am. Thanks.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
October 20, 2016 at 1:52 pm
(October 20, 2016 at 1:14 am)robvalue Wrote: I've put a lot of thought into this, and I'm sorry to say this is final. I'm leaving the forum. I've fought long and hard to keep this place going in the right direction. Up until recently, I feel I have done that. Sadly, despite my best efforts, I have ultimately failed. It's to do with principles I can't compromise on. Unfortunately this means I can no longer stand by the forum, and being here only makes me sad. Apparently there is something coming about this issue so I will say more about it then.
That's not at all a reflection on the wonderful membership here. I think of many of you as friends, and I've been honoured to have been part of the community. You're welcome to keep in contact with me by email or Skype, both [email protected].
If things ever change, I might return. But sadly it's not looking like that's ever going to happen. Thank you all, and goodbye
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