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RE: girlish girls, manly men.
December 16, 2014 at 2:17 pm
(This post was last modified: December 16, 2014 at 2:23 pm by paulpablo.)
Quote:Funny story. When I first started gardening I noticed I had a real aversion to pink flowers.
I think I heard that in Victorian times pink was actually the colour for boys and blue for girls.
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RE: girlish girls, manly men.
December 16, 2014 at 2:33 pm
Someone told me in college I had no personality. What a horrific thing to say, looking back. That's the only time someone said something like that. Although far from the only time I was openly ridiculed.
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RE: girlish girls, manly men.
December 16, 2014 at 2:59 pm
I've been called without personality. .. by a libyan female obsessed with marriage.
I hate both girly and manly stuff
Libyan men are like stereotypical African Americans, libyan women are a mixture of African American women and women from movies like "the mona lisa smile"
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RE: girlish girls, manly men.
December 16, 2014 at 4:14 pm
(December 16, 2014 at 2:11 pm)paulpablo Wrote: The message isn't actually forthrightly presented to a person, which is a bit of the annoying part of it in my opinion.
If I miss someone I DEFINITELY tell them you miss them, I've told girls I miss how they smell I miss how they feel I miss how they sound.
But I didn't put a status on a social media program broadcast to everyone saying "I miss how you feel, how you smell, how you sound". I just simply txt that one individual person a message to their phone or called them on the phone. No one else saw it or had to look at it and wonder who I was talking about.
Also these messages aren't forthright from the person to another person, they are usually made up by someone online, typed up in a nice font with some fancy graphics behind the font, put on a website where people download these images then the images are used as profile photos on things like whatsapp, probably on facebook even though I don't have facebook I imagine they get used on there even more.
You've never made a public gesture to a woman you've loved? Never expressed public appreciation for a friend?
Different strokes, I suppose.
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RE: girlish girls, manly men.
December 16, 2014 at 4:18 pm
(December 16, 2014 at 2:16 pm)Beccs Wrote: I cry stuff all.
I have been told I'm emotionless by some people. Then I hit them.
I have the full range of emotions: Rage. Anger. Hate.
Well at least you have the essential ones.
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RE: girlish girls, manly men.
December 16, 2014 at 4:19 pm
Someone sounds like they have difficulties filtering out their newsfeed.
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RE: girlish girls, manly men.
December 16, 2014 at 4:31 pm
(December 16, 2014 at 4:18 pm)whateverist Wrote: (December 16, 2014 at 2:16 pm)Beccs Wrote: I cry stuff all.
I have been told I'm emotionless by some people. Then I hit them.
I have the full range of emotions: Rage. Anger. Hate.
Well at least you have the essential ones.
I know, right?
Emotionless, my arse!
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RE: girlish girls, manly men.
December 16, 2014 at 4:32 pm
(December 16, 2014 at 4:31 pm)Beccs Wrote: (December 16, 2014 at 4:18 pm)whateverist Wrote: Well at least you have the essential ones.
I know, right?
Emotionless, my arse!
And more than one!
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RE: girlish girls, manly men.
December 16, 2014 at 4:41 pm
(December 16, 2014 at 3:50 am)rexbeccarox Wrote: I don't really think of such broad traits being feminine or masculine. People are just people, and some do annoying and/or endearing things.
I think you'll find broad traits around the shoulders tends to be masculine and broad traits round the hips tends to be feminine.
I pride myself on being exceptionally annoying.
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RE: girlish girls, manly men.
December 16, 2014 at 8:11 pm
(December 16, 2014 at 2:17 pm)paulpablo Wrote: Quote:Funny story. When I first started gardening I noticed I had a real aversion to pink flowers.
I think I heard that in Victorian times pink was actually the colour for boys and blue for girls.
Absolutely true. All shades of red (including pink) were associated with masculinity. I blame the fuckin' Romans.
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