I don't believe in love, but this is basically a list of the different types of attractions I've felt to girls over my life.
They aren't all black and white and some do cross over and change over time.
Reliable stable dependable love (the boring sort)
Nothing is difficult with this type of love, no challenge. The person you're with will have sex when you want, every phone call you make to them is answered even if they're busy, you don't think about seeing them again they always inquire when the next meeting will be and so on. You pretty much stay with them because you have been with them for so long and it's routine now and would be weird without them, and there are good memories and some good times.
The edge of your seat not knowing what will happen next type.
This is an obsessive sort of love, probably caused by multiple psychological reasons. The person plays hard to get creating a perception of being better and more desirable. You might also get along very very well with the person. The person might actually be very desirable and be associated with high status things, they might have a good job, lots of money, good looks, youth, high standards of fitness. This type of love is usually fuelled by just enough communication and contact to keep you interested, with bouts of staring at your phone thinking "WHY THE FUCK ARE THEY NOT TXTING ME BACK!" inbetween. The type of love where you want to rip your cock out and throw it at them just to have some sexual contact with them.
Severe lust
Basically this is horniness fuelled. The sex is so good that it doesn't matter if the person has an annoying personality or they're poor.
The unattainable unrealistic type.
This basically involves me seeing a girl from far away, I don't know her personality, what she looks like naked or anything about her it's just something about that person and usually something stupid that just makes me want to be with them badly. A good looking girl in a nice car for instance, or a girl who has adapted a certain style I quite like or something.
The nostalgic type
In this instance I did like the person I was with while I was with them but nostalgia and rose tinted memories distort how much I actually liked them.
The sympathy type
This one is hard to describe but I sometimes really really like a girl because of some imperfections she has, it might be a stupidity, bad luck, dopeyness. I don't know if it is sympathy, maybe I can just relate to someone who has imperfections better than someone who I see as being more perfect.
I'll stay with you because I can't do better/until I can do better.
I think the human brain can delude itself into thinking it is in love, yet the reality is that if the person who believes they are in love actually had more options they would dump the person they believe they are in love with. I think this has happened to me before and I think it pretty much happens to a lot of people.
They aren't all black and white and some do cross over and change over time.
Reliable stable dependable love (the boring sort)
Nothing is difficult with this type of love, no challenge. The person you're with will have sex when you want, every phone call you make to them is answered even if they're busy, you don't think about seeing them again they always inquire when the next meeting will be and so on. You pretty much stay with them because you have been with them for so long and it's routine now and would be weird without them, and there are good memories and some good times.
The edge of your seat not knowing what will happen next type.
This is an obsessive sort of love, probably caused by multiple psychological reasons. The person plays hard to get creating a perception of being better and more desirable. You might also get along very very well with the person. The person might actually be very desirable and be associated with high status things, they might have a good job, lots of money, good looks, youth, high standards of fitness. This type of love is usually fuelled by just enough communication and contact to keep you interested, with bouts of staring at your phone thinking "WHY THE FUCK ARE THEY NOT TXTING ME BACK!" inbetween. The type of love where you want to rip your cock out and throw it at them just to have some sexual contact with them.
Severe lust
Basically this is horniness fuelled. The sex is so good that it doesn't matter if the person has an annoying personality or they're poor.
The unattainable unrealistic type.
This basically involves me seeing a girl from far away, I don't know her personality, what she looks like naked or anything about her it's just something about that person and usually something stupid that just makes me want to be with them badly. A good looking girl in a nice car for instance, or a girl who has adapted a certain style I quite like or something.
The nostalgic type
In this instance I did like the person I was with while I was with them but nostalgia and rose tinted memories distort how much I actually liked them.
The sympathy type
This one is hard to describe but I sometimes really really like a girl because of some imperfections she has, it might be a stupidity, bad luck, dopeyness. I don't know if it is sympathy, maybe I can just relate to someone who has imperfections better than someone who I see as being more perfect.
I'll stay with you because I can't do better/until I can do better.
I think the human brain can delude itself into thinking it is in love, yet the reality is that if the person who believes they are in love actually had more options they would dump the person they believe they are in love with. I think this has happened to me before and I think it pretty much happens to a lot of people.
Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.
Impersonation is treason.
