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Poll: How would you feel if a gay person of either sex said they fancied you?
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Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
#91
RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
(July 7, 2015 at 12:30 pm)robvalue Wrote:
(July 7, 2015 at 12:16 pm)TubbyTubby Wrote: It's probably like the autistic spectrum? My wife is convinced I sit somewhere along that line as does everyone else. I would suggest we all sit along these spectrums in bisexuality and autism and there's really no real defined 'autistic person' or 'bi-sexual person' just a matter of degree (and self denial).

Yes, I totally agree. We're not toggle-monkeys, we're all on sliders.
A lesson in concisive writing, how to make a point in 8 words instead of 50 odd! I like "toggle-monkeys".
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#92
RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
(July 7, 2015 at 12:20 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:
(July 7, 2015 at 12:11 pm)Atheist_BG Wrote: Given that I'm the last person on Earth someone would fancy, I'd be flattered.

why?

I just PMed you with an answer to that, so that we don't go into an offtopic here.
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#93
RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
(July 7, 2015 at 12:29 pm)whateverist Wrote:
(July 7, 2015 at 12:09 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: How old are you? Sometimes it's normal during puberty to question yourself. I know I had instances back then when the thought crossed my mind, but I can now say that I am 10000000000% heterosexual. The thought of being with a woman now thoroughly grosses me out (no offense to anyone, this is just me). It's crazy what teenage hormones can do!

I'll bet your husband likes to hear about those early girl on girl crushes.  Amirte?  My wife Lia who can pass for a dyke insists she is "10000000000% heterosexual" too.  But I like to kid her about her crushes on her camp counselor, Helga.  "Here Lia, you must know what it will be like with a baby, no?  Let baby Helga show you."

Haha, oh my gosh you're awful!

Well if you must know, it never went as far as a "real crush". But I did feel nervous around some girls who I thought were really pretty and really cool. Never to the point of feeling anything sexual though, just admiration and a "what if..." sort of thing.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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#94
RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
My wife says that she only realizes in looking back that crushes were at all sexual. She'd have never realized it then.
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#95
RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
(July 7, 2015 at 9:49 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote:
(July 7, 2015 at 7:43 am)Nope Wrote: By the way, Stimbo, I have seen the video of you in the thread on accents. You are a very nice looking man with a lovely accent. Don't underrate yourself.

Which video is this? Not to be a creeper but I'm always super curious to know the faces of the people I talk to on these anonymous forums. Seems like I'm the only one brave enough to have a real picture! Tongue

Oh, I've had a personal pic as my av here several times. And most of us have posted in the pics thread. I put up a vid in the accents thread, too.

Here's one I took last week while changing my guitar strings.

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#96
RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
(July 7, 2015 at 1:24 pm)Parkers Tan Wrote:
(July 7, 2015 at 9:49 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Which video is this? Not to be a creeper but I'm always super curious to know the faces of the people I talk to on these anonymous forums. Seems like I'm the only one brave enough to have a real picture! Tongue

Oh, I've had a personal pic as my av here several times. And most of us have posted in the pics thread. I put up a vid in the accents thread, too.

Here's one I took last week while changing my guitar strings.

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I saw your video! You seem like such a sweetheart/down to earth Texan.

...I would never have known. Wink  

Once my thirty days are up, I think I'm gonna start a thread asking for people's pictures and posting some of my own. Right now I'm still considered a "trial" member so I can't post images.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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#97
RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
(July 7, 2015 at 10:02 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I just saw Parker Tan's video too. Holy smokes, you guys sound/look so much nicer than it comes off on here!

Pleasantly surprised for sure... Smile

lol, should I be flattered, or insulted?

I think I sound like a dork. Like many folks, I can't stand the sound of my own voice.

Yes, that can mean two things, lol.

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#98
RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
(July 7, 2015 at 1:34 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Once my thirty days are up, I think I'm gonna start a thread asking for people's pictures and posting some of my own. Right now I'm still considered a "trial" member so I can't post images.

We have such a thread.

As far as the 30/30 rule goes, there are numerous exceptions to that rule, and nobody is going to care if you want to post images in a thread dedicated to that purpose.
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#99
RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
(July 7, 2015 at 1:49 pm)Parkers Tan Wrote:
(July 7, 2015 at 10:02 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I just saw Parker Tan's video too. Holy smokes, you guys sound/look so much nicer than it comes off on here!

Pleasantly surprised for sure... Smile

lol, should I be flattered, or insulted?

I think I sound like a dork. Like many folks, I can't stand the sound of my own voice.

Yes, that can mean two things, lol.

Well, flattered I hope. Smile

You've been very kind to me, but some of the harsh words you've had for other members here gave me a different impression of you. I thought you'd be more mean sounding lol. You sounded really nice.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
Unless of course you were posting pictures of Catholic products for sale.
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