Objectifying women

[In This Mind]

AND WE HAVE A BINGO!

ITM has revealed what's happening here. She demonstrates that anyone who disagrees with her on this matter is a rapist themselves. They must admit since they disagree then they can be inticed to rape and fantasize about raping.

Anyone who blames the victim does so because they can be incited to rape.

Ok, you wanna play that game? Play with me. Ask me that question. I'll tell you exactly what I like a woman to wear when I fantisize about raping them.

And his true colors are revealed

[tavarish]

ITM,

No one has said if you take heed of simple commom sense advice on avoiding sexual assault it will guarantee your safety. You are harping on as if that is what is being said. What is being said is avoiding risks can help prevent opportunity for rapists to strike. Period.

Some people put on their seatbelts, use their blinkers, check their blind spots, and still get t-boned by a 18-wheeler at an intersection.

Life isn't fair. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't use risk assessment and be alert of your surroundings.

[Dotard]

You revealed yours many posts back. Your recent posts have only served to complete the BINGO®.

Now I'm just here to piss you off. C'mon, ask me that question. I promise my answer will probably make to hurl your keyboard across the room.

[tavarish]

I understand the issue here.

In This Mind thinks "put on your seatbelt" means "stay home".

By the way, thanks for telling me I'm helping date rapists, along with every one of my "kind".

With that razor sharp intellect, I wish you luck in life. Have fun blaming everyone that doesn't agree with you for the ills that you've experienced.

Toodles.

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You revealed yours many posts back. Your recent posts have only served to complete the BINGO®.

Now I'm just here to piss you off. C'mon, ask me that question. I promise my answer will probably make to hurl your keyboard across the room.

Rape fantasies - does it count if they're unconscious already?

[Dotard]

Rape fantasies - does it count if they're unconscious already?

[In This Mind]

Ah, the men of rape culture. Blame the woman, then laugh about how funny rape is.

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Fortunately, you are losing.

More and more rape victims are refusing to withdraw into a silent scream. They no longer readily accept any portion of blame in a society that has traditionally been ambivalent about siding with them. In the past decade, as women have gained greater equality, women's groups have coalesced across the country to work to bring rape out of a miasma of shame, insensitivity and injustice. In many ways, the crusade has paid off. There has been widespread improvement in the way rape victims are treated by the police, courts and hospitals. There are now more than 700 rape crisis centers nationwide. Laws in most states have been toughened, conviction rates are going up, and judges are likely to give more stringent sentences to offenders.

Read more: http://www.time.com/time/magazine/articl...z0tL7kX1Mw

Nonetheless, rape remains one of the most misunderstood and underreported crimes. Only 3.5% to 10% of rapes are reported, according to an aggregate of surveys done by the U.S. Census Bureau, the FBI and the National Opinion Research Center. Using conservative estimates, experts calculate that a woman's chance of being raped at some point during her life is an appalling 1 in 10. But as the social stigma on rape victims begins to lessen, they are fighting back through the legal system, reporting their cases and seeing them through to prosecution. The number of reported rapes has steadily risen, jumping 35% to 99,146 in 1981, the latest year for which the Justice Department has figures. (Justice calculated its number on a 56% rate for reported rapes, a percentage the experts agree is much too high.) Although most authorities feel there is some increase in the actual number of rapes, including gang rapes and rapes of children and men, most of the rise is attributed to more women reporting the attacks on them.

One of the key factors in making the system more responsive to victims is a better understanding of why people rape. The old image of a man's succumbing to uncontrollable (and, to many, understandable) lust, enticed by a provocative woman wearing sexy clothes, is fading, as is the notion that women falsely cry rape.

Rape is now regarded as a crime of violence, not passion. Sex is not the chief thing that motivates rapists, says A. Nicholas Groth, director of an innovative sex-offender program at the state prison in Somers, Conn. "Rape is the sexual expression of aggression."

Groth says that most rapists have wives or girlfriends and are not sexually deprived. They rape for power. "They are insecure, inadequate people who don't feel in control of their own lives or themselves." One rapist told Groth:

Read more: http://www.time.com/time/magazine/articl...z0tL7sZDW7

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The fucked up part is, some women will die because they followed your advice.

There are no standard responses to an attack. Many self-defense specialists advise acting aggressively early in the assault, yelling or bending his pinkie finger back. But there is no way of knowing how a given attacker will respond. In Groth's group, one rapist said he "would let them go as soon as they started to cry." Another said he stabbed a woman who became assertive.

Read more: http://www.time.com/time/magazine/articl...z0tL8JhHAz

[Minimalist]

The old image of a man's succumbing to uncontrollable (and, to many, understandable) lust, enticed by a provocative woman wearing sexy clothes,

What muslims insist on calling "reality"

[tavarish]

LOL @ men of rape culture.

You are utterly and unquestionably fucked in the head.

Good day.

[fr0d0]

It must suck being female. Personally, I really hate feeling afraid when I realise that fucked up meat heads are in my vicinity. Luckily that only happens once in a blue moon. women have to live that every day

Mrs fr0d0 made an interesting point, and we were discussing it on IRC yesterday :

If you could insure against being raped, taking risks that would increase the chance of rape happening would invalidate your claim.

Same as with the car analogy : where you left it unlocked with the keys in the lock. Your insurance company wouldn't pay against a claim of theft because you increased the chance of theft.

[Tiberius]

I've just read through the last 2 pages of posts and I don't think I've ever read more non-sequiturs in my life.

In This Mind, you are the best example of an irrational thinker. When people present counter arguments, you present insults and outright fallacies. I'm sorry someone tried to rape you, but just because we think that rape can be prevented by using common sense and not taking risks, does not mean we are a bunch of rapists.