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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 11, 2016 at 5:33 pm
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(January 11, 2016 at 5:05 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (January 11, 2016 at 4:25 pm)Napoléon Wrote: O rly?
As far as I saw, no one was defending her decision to accept a shower invite from a drunk, practically homeless man who had the hots for her. I think we can all agree it was poor judgement at the very least.
Absolutely. Point is whether the rape victim is foolish or not, the rape victim is the victim, and shouldn't be blamed: The rapist should be blamed.
SC nailed it perfectly: SteelCurtain Wrote:Saying "she could have better protected herself" is not the same as saying "she is partly to blame."
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 11, 2016 at 5:38 pm
(January 11, 2016 at 5:33 pm)Evie Wrote: (January 11, 2016 at 5:05 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: As far as I saw, no one was defending her decision to accept a shower invite from a drunk, practically homeless man who had the hots for her. I think we can all agree it was poor judgement at the very least.
Absolutely. Point is whether the rape victim is foolish or not, the rape victim is the victim, and shouldn't be blamed: The rapist should be blamed.
SC nailed it perfectly:
SteelCurtain Wrote:Saying "she could have better protected herself" is not the same as saying "she is partly to blame."
Yep!
I think we all agree on that too, but there were some posts that just said some things I did not agree with.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 11, 2016 at 10:05 pm
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Of course she is partly to blame.
I have had an experience before and I know that I am partly to blame, even though I probably wasn't.
And yes, that is not someone that'd been just raped react(no one that's been raped goes on social media looking for all the attention, shit , they'd be in shock). She probably just had a bad sexual experience.
I mean like, imagine you annoying someone sitting there just minding their business. You are doing all the clown faces and farting in his direction. You are laughing your ass off looking at the guys face. You can do so much until the guy just snaps and beats the shit out of you, then you can't bitch about how we are civilized beings and people can't just snap and beat the shit out of you because that is uncivilized and we live in a civilized society.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 11, 2016 at 10:35 pm
That's a terribly inapt analogy.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 11, 2016 at 10:37 pm
(January 11, 2016 at 10:05 pm)pool Wrote: Of course she is partly to blame.
I have had an experience before and I know that I am partly to blame, even though I probably wasn't.
And yes, that is not someone that'd been just raped react(no one that's been raped goes on social media looking for all the attention, shit , they'd be in shock). She probably just had a bad sexual experience.
I mean like, imagine you annoying someone sitting there just minding their business. You are doing all the clown faces and farting in his direction. You are laughing your ass off looking at the guys face. You can do so much until the guy just snaps and beats the shit out of you, then you can't bitch about how we are civilized beings and people can't just snap and beat the shit out of you because that is uncivilized and we live in a civilized society.
Everything you've said in this thread is juvenile and disgusting, containing a lot speculation that you're trying to pass off as fact. You have no more idea what happened than any of the rest of us, and your attitude is, at best, fucked up.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 11, 2016 at 10:38 pm
So essentially, if you get naked and start kissing you are obligated to have sex? I don't understand this. I've got naked and kissed without having sex because I wanted to stop and didn't feel ok. And I was drunk.. And she was drunk too...
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 12, 2016 at 12:09 am
Yeah a few of the comments on this thread are extremely messed up. Ugh. Makes me sick.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 12, 2016 at 1:29 am
(January 11, 2016 at 10:05 pm)pool Wrote: Of course she is partly to blame.
I have had an experience before and I know that I am partly to blame, even though I probably wasn't.
And yes, that is not someone that'd been just raped react(no one that's been raped goes on social media looking for all the attention, shit , they'd be in shock). She probably just had a bad sexual experience.
I mean like, imagine you annoying someone sitting there just minding their business. You are doing all the clown faces and farting in his direction. You are laughing your ass off looking at the guys face. You can do so much until the guy just snaps and beats the shit out of you, then you can't bitch about how we are civilized beings and people can't just snap and beat the shit out of you because that is uncivilized and we live in a civilized society.
This is just echelons of dumb and I think you know it.
Someone taking something from me that does not belong to them is never, ever my fault no matter what I did.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 12, 2016 at 3:39 am
(January 11, 2016 at 7:30 am)pool Wrote: She was raped over 9 times before.
Over 9 fucking times. Fuck.
She thought getting naked with a man on shower and kissing him wouldn't excite the guy? Holy shit.
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What a joke
What the fuck is wrong with you assholes?
Maybe she wanted to arouse him, that doesn't mean she should foresee that he would rape her.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 12, 2016 at 5:23 am
I stand by what I said.
Everyone should be held responsible for their actions. Women are not fragile creatures that don't know any better, I don't understand why they always get a pass. Seriously, did you guys even see that youtube video I posted? Some chicks get into a cabby and when he asks for the charge they cry that he raped them and molested them, he was lucky he had the whole incident on tape otherwise his whole life would've been ruined. His marriage would have fallen apart, his children would've been disgusted by him, society would spite him. His whole life would've been turned to complete shit and he'd probably kill himself. But that's probably alright since those ladies didn't know this would've happened to him. And what happens when the Cops at the scene review the tapes and finds that he had not done anything? They let the chicks go free. I don't get it. If he didn't have those tapes his life would've been ruined by their false accusations. But when it was found their accusations were false, they were let go.
If you wave a hamburger in front of a guy desperate for food, teasing him with it, he will snatch it from you and eat it. If you don't understand this, you aren't qualified to live in this society. If anyone have a problem with what I think, I welcome you to challenge it. I will however ignore you if your challenge is directed at me in the form of insults rather than at my beliefs.
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