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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 10:10 pm
(January 10, 2016 at 10:05 pm)Rhythm Wrote: Really? She'd just been raped, now you want her to get shot? 
Lol, someone had to go there, huh?
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 10:11 pm
(January 10, 2016 at 10:10 pm)Chad32 Wrote: (January 10, 2016 at 10:05 pm)Rhythm Wrote: Really? She'd just been raped, now you want her to get shot?
Lol, someone had to go there, huh?
Yes, yes they did.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 10:12 pm
I only meant to hover my ass over his penis. I didn't give no consent to sex.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 10:12 pm
(January 10, 2016 at 10:10 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote: (January 10, 2016 at 1:41 pm)Chad32 Wrote: You decided to get intimate with a drunk person, and are upset that he didn't stop at the point you wanted to stop. Now I know what he did was wrong, but what she did was also wrong. Rape is not ok, but you should also not put yourself in that kind of position if you aren't planning to go all the way. If you don't want to have sex, don't get naked and start kissing someone. especially someone who is drunk.
Now if a woman just happens to be walking down the street in a revealing outfit, and she gets jumped and raped, I put full blame on the rapists. But there's a difference between a poor innocent victim going about their day, and getting raped, and someone who decided she wants to get naked and kiss a drunk guy, and expecting him to know when to stop.
getting run over by a car is a horrible thing, but if you were playing in the street when it happened it's a little bit your fault. Context is important.
So what...women should be afraid of drunk men? Alcohol turns mentally healthy, social adjusted adults into rapists? A woman can't enjoy an intimate, sensual shower with a man and expect him to stop when she asks him to? Or, if she does ask him to stop she is being unreasonable? Give me a break.
Alcohol turnes mentally healthy, socially adjusted adults into idiots. Yes. Are you unfamiliar with alcohol? Have you never gotten wasted, or seen someone who was wasted?
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 10:15 pm
Grabbing a penis and putting it in front of my Vag is not consent to sex!! raaaaaaaaape
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 10:16 pm
(January 10, 2016 at 9:57 pm)Napoléon Wrote: (January 10, 2016 at 9:51 pm)The_Empress Wrote: I was objecting to those who seem to think they do know what happened, and suggesting she did anything wrong falls within that context.
Surely then suggesting that the guy she stepped in the shower with was a rapist, is also over-stepping the mark, if we don't know the facts...
None of us have an issue extrapolating that though from the given information.
Really?? When did I ever suggest that? When did I ever agree with anyone who was suggesting that? I've done nothing but withhold judgement for anyone but the people indicating they know what happened.
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Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 10:19 pm
(January 10, 2016 at 10:12 pm)Chad32 Wrote: (January 10, 2016 at 10:10 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote: So what...women should be afraid of drunk men? Alcohol turns mentally healthy, social adjusted adults into rapists? A woman can't enjoy an intimate, sensual shower with a man and expect him to stop when she asks him to? Or, if she does ask him to stop she is being unreasonable? Give me a break.
Alcohol turnes mentally healthy, socially adjusted adults into idiots. Yes. Are you unfamiliar with alcohol? Have you never gotten wasted, or seen someone who was wasted?
Of course I have, to both questions! But committing a rape is more than someone just acting like an idiot. My point is, you blame the man, not the booze. Plenty of men get drunk and they don't rape anyone.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 10:19 pm
(This post was last modified: January 10, 2016 at 10:21 pm by Catholic_Lady.)
(January 10, 2016 at 9:50 pm)Jello Wrote: (January 10, 2016 at 9:49 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Not explicitly, but insinuated as much here: Me and Chad are two different people, so that bears no relevance to his point.
I never stated she had no right to be upset.
You commented on a response I made to him, that's why it was traced back to his post.
I know you personally don't feel the same way.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 10:23 pm
(January 10, 2016 at 10:19 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (January 10, 2016 at 9:50 pm)Jello Wrote: Me and Chad are two different people, so that bears no relevance to his point.
I never stated she had no right to be upset.
You commented on a response I made to him, that's why it was traced back to his post.
I know you personally don't feel the same way.
True, though I think Paulpablo was referring to my point.
Not that it really matters, as you've stated, you know it's not my opinion, which was the only thing i thought needed clearing up.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 10:30 pm
(January 10, 2016 at 10:12 pm)Chad32 Wrote: (January 10, 2016 at 10:10 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote: So what...women should be afraid of drunk men? Alcohol turns mentally healthy, social adjusted adults into rapists? A woman can't enjoy an intimate, sensual shower with a man and expect him to stop when she asks him to? Or, if she does ask him to stop she is being unreasonable? Give me a break.
Alcohol turnes mentally healthy, socially adjusted adults into idiots. Yes. Are you unfamiliar with alcohol? Have you never gotten wasted, or seen someone who was wasted?
Acting like an idiot when drunk is a far cry from becoming a rapist.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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