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Indonesian Atheist
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Indonesian Atheist
Hello. I'm from Indonesia, the largest Muslim country in the world. Despite that, I was raised Protestant, participate in Pentecostal once, and then I became atheist. I'm also an HIV+ gay guy. So everything's marvelous lol. I wanted to participate here because I never had an atheist friend before. All of my friends are not practicing religious people (but still afraid of hell, etc), my mother is a very devout Christian and can't think for herself. My dad passed away when I'm 16.

It's pretty hard to be a homosexual - HIV+ - atheist here if you're not having positive attitude towards life. My country isn't that open yet with these kind of 'differences' although there's some areas which everything seemed to be more progressive (free treatments for HIV patients, and legally, medical world doesn't view homosexuality as sickness). But of course, social life is more judgmental, biased, uninformed, what have yous. It is not acceptable in my country to be an atheist. There's 'religion' column in our ID cards which cannot be blanked. So as long as you keep these differences secret, you good to go.

I have a partner who knows everything about me. My friends, my boss and some of my family members accepts my homosexuality without blinking, so in the grand scheme of things, I'm doing pretty fine. But maybe because I live in a big city in the most progressive island in Indonesia, I can't imagined those who live in rural areas (which often use religion as a strict social control) or other islands (in Aceh, northern Sumatra, they use Shariah law which may come with physical or even fatal punishments; and in Maluku, I will be extremely viewed as a social pariah if I refuse to go to church).


I found so much joy from atheist youtube videos and Atheist Experience. It feels like I found new delightful friends. I really hope I can make more friends here. That's all my introduction. Have a great life.
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#2
RE: Indonesian Atheist
We4lcome from an Aussie in New Zealand.

Glad you could join us.

Playing Cluedo with my mum while I was at Uni:

"You did WHAT?  With WHO?  WHERE???"
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RE: Indonesian Atheist
(February 2, 2016 at 11:40 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: We4lcome from an Aussie in New Zealand.

Glad you could join us.

Thank you Big Grin
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#4
RE: Indonesian Atheist
Welcome to the forums Smile
Teenaged X-Files obsession + Bermuda Triangle episode + Self-led school research project = Atheist.
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#5
RE: Indonesian Atheist
Your English is spectacular!
You are obviously educated.


Welcome.
No God, No fear.
Know God, Know fear.
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RE: Indonesian Atheist
(February 2, 2016 at 11:38 pm)Wrikudoro Wrote: Hello. I'm from Indonesia, the largest Muslim country in the world. Despite that, I was raised Protestant, participate in Pentecostal once, and then I became atheist. I'm also an HIV+ gay guy. So everything's marvelous lol. I wanted to participate here because I never had an atheist friend before. All of my friends are not practicing religious people (but still afraid of hell, etc), my mother is a very devout Christian and can't think for herself. My dad passed away when I'm 16.

It's pretty hard to be a homosexual - HIV+ - atheist here if you're not having positive attitude towards life. My country isn't that open yet with these kind of 'differences' although there's some areas which everything seemed to be more progressive (free treatments for HIV patients, and legally, medical world doesn't view homosexuality as sickness). But of course, social life is more judgmental, biased, uninformed, what have yous. It is not acceptable in my country to be an atheist. There's 'religion' column in our ID cards which cannot be blanked. So as long as you keep these differences secret, you good to go.

I have a partner who knows everything about me. My friends, my boss and some of my family members accepts my homosexuality without blinking, so in the grand scheme of things, I'm doing pretty fine. But maybe because I live in a big city in the most progressive island in Indonesia, I can't imagined those who live in rural areas (which often use religion as a strict social control) or other islands (in Aceh, northern Sumatra, they use Shariah law which may come with physical or even fatal punishments; and in Maluku, I will be extremely viewed as a social pariah if I refuse to go to church).


I found so much joy from atheist youtube videos and Atheist Experience. It feels like I found new delightful friends. I really hope I can make more friends here. That's all my introduction. Have a great life.

Be interesting to have you around. Welcome aboard
To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day,
To the last syllable of recorded time;
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!
Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player,
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage,
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.
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RE: Indonesian Atheist
(February 2, 2016 at 11:51 pm)Clueless Morgan Wrote: Welcome to the forums Smile

Thank you
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RE: Indonesian Atheist
(February 2, 2016 at 11:38 pm)Wrikudoro Wrote: Hello. I'm from Indonesia, the largest Muslim country in the world. Despite that, I was raised Protestant, participate in Pentecostal once, and then I became atheist. I'm also an HIV+ gay guy. So everything's marvelous lol. I wanted to participate here because I never had an atheist friend before. All of my friends are not practicing religious people (but still afraid of hell, etc), my mother is a very devout Christian and can't think for herself. My dad passed away when I'm 16.

It's pretty hard to be a homosexual - HIV+ - atheist here if you're not having positive attitude towards life. My country isn't that open yet with these kind of 'differences' although there's some areas which everything seemed to be more progressive (free treatments for HIV patients, and legally, medical world doesn't view homosexuality as sickness). But of course, social life is more judgmental, biased, uninformed, what have yous. It is not acceptable in my country to be an atheist. There's 'religion' column in our ID cards which cannot be blanked. So as long as you keep these differences secret, you good to go.

I have a partner who knows everything about me. My friends, my boss and some of my family members accepts my homosexuality without blinking, so in the grand scheme of things, I'm doing pretty fine. But maybe because I live in a big city in the most progressive island in Indonesia, I can't imagined those who live in rural areas (which often use religion as a strict social control) or other islands (in Aceh, northern Sumatra, they use Shariah law which may come with physical or even fatal punishments; and in Maluku, I will be extremely viewed as a social pariah if I refuse to go to church).


I found so much joy from atheist youtube videos and Atheist Experience. It feels like I found new delightful friends. I really hope I can make more friends here. That's all my introduction. Have a great life.

Welcome.  I just joined the forum yesterday.

I'm 40 something year old...divorced then remarried female who despises every version of god I've ever heard of and who's too lazy to make one up by myself.  I also dislike everything about extremist religious people and their sheep-thought. 

I'm half black, half british, half native-american and really bad at math.
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RE: Indonesian Atheist
(February 2, 2016 at 11:54 pm)ignoramus Wrote: Your English is spectacular!
You are obviously educated.


Welcome.

Oh wow! Really? Thank's so much

(February 2, 2016 at 11:59 pm)GodCherry Wrote:
(February 2, 2016 at 11:38 pm)Wrikudoro Wrote: Hello. I'm from Indonesia, the largest Muslim country in the world. Despite that, I was raised Protestant, participate in Pentecostal once, and then I became atheist. I'm also an HIV+ gay guy. So everything's marvelous lol. I wanted to participate here because I never had an atheist friend before. All of my friends are not practicing religious people (but still afraid of hell, etc), my mother is a very devout Christian and can't think for herself. My dad passed away when I'm 16.

It's pretty hard to be a homosexual - HIV+ - atheist here if you're not having positive attitude towards life. My country isn't that open yet with these kind of 'differences' although there's some areas which everything seemed to be more progressive (free treatments for HIV patients, and legally, medical world doesn't view homosexuality as sickness). But of course, social life is more judgmental, biased, uninformed, what have yous. It is not acceptable in my country to be an atheist. There's 'religion' column in our ID cards which cannot be blanked. So as long as you keep these differences secret, you good to go.

I have a partner who knows everything about me. My friends, my boss and some of my family members accepts my homosexuality without blinking, so in the grand scheme of things, I'm doing pretty fine. But maybe because I live in a big city in the most progressive island in Indonesia, I can't imagined those who live in rural areas (which often use religion as a strict social control) or other islands (in Aceh, northern Sumatra, they use Shariah law which may come with physical or even fatal punishments; and in Maluku, I will be extremely viewed as a social pariah if I refuse to go to church).


I found so much joy from atheist youtube videos and Atheist Experience. It feels like I found new delightful friends. I really hope I can make more friends here. That's all my introduction. Have a great life.

Welcome.  I just joined the forum yesterday.

I'm 40 something year old...divorced then remarried female who despises every version of god I've ever heard of and who's too lazy to make one up by myself.  I also dislike everything about extremist religious people and their sheep-thought. 

I'm half black, half british, half native-american and really bad at math.

I remember once I tried to go to church again to make my mom happy. I thought 'well, maybe I can found new things now'. Oh boy how wrong was I. Everything's old bullshit platitudes and I wanna scream to my obviously in the closet priest about how wrong he was on so many points. Long story short, didn't go well. Lol
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RE: Indonesian Atheist
Welcome Smile
Nolite te bastardes carborundorum.
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