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September 28, 2010 at 4:31 pm
To leveni: I'm all right. You? And yes, my parents do know about my beliefs, but they don't know the kids are giving me a hard time about it. I feel like I want to show them the new survey that atheists aced, but of course, they'll be all "You can't prove that's true." Theists.
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October 1, 2010 at 3:59 pm
(This post was last modified: October 1, 2010 at 4:00 pm by Nitsuj.)
Another problem: What do I do when they say "It's called having faith" (Besides barfing)?
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October 1, 2010 at 4:07 pm
(October 1, 2010 at 3:59 pm)Nitsuj Wrote: Another problem: What do I do when they say "It's called having faith" (Besides barfing)?
I'd reply by saying that my standards don't go that low.
Also religion doesn't deserve special treatment. It should and will be treated like any other extraordinary claim that has no evidence to back it up.....rejection!
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan
Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.
Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.
You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
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October 1, 2010 at 6:07 pm
Thanks, Ace! I'll use that!
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October 1, 2010 at 8:07 pm
It is only necessary to be authentic in response. If I am worried about being faced with questions I cannot think of an answer to and that I will bumble and stutter an incoherent response, I just decide to let that happen, because that is a genuine response. It doesn't particularly matter if it happens, I still have the freedom to be an atheist even if I've argued my position badly. Atheists are under no more obligation to be rational, well-argued, or particularly articulate than anyone else. After any conversation with people who believe in god, it is highly unlikely that any of them will convert to atheism. And so what if they convert you? It's equally unlikely though. The important thing is that the decision is the individual's, not one forced onto the individual because they haven't performed particularly well in a debate.
The whole proof/no-proof debate is a bit of an irrelevance really. You could be presented with a valid proof of the existence of God and yet still decide for yourself that such proof must be an illusion, or indeed that your own identity is an illusion. We don't particularly need reasons for the positions we adopt, we just need to be reasonably comfortable in ourselves with them. The reasons and rational justifications tend to follow the position we take, not precede it. Take me for example, I'm an existentialist but I expect it'll be some years before I can robustly argue why.
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October 5, 2010 at 3:29 pm
The best answer to their questions is "I don't know" (assuming you don't).
There is no requirement that you have an alternative to their claims to justify your disbelief, just tell them you are not convinced by the evidence.
They are essentially saying that if you can't prove otherwise then they must be right which is an argument from ignorance.