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RE: Polyamory
September 10, 2017 at 10:36 pm
My relationship with my partners is totally open .But live my two primary partners live with me. Though each of us has had multiple partners over the years . I myself have had 6 in my adult life . And yes I have done it with more then one partner more then 2 actually
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RE: Polyamory
September 10, 2017 at 11:08 pm
It took mathematicians a couple of centuries to solve the three-body problem, and that without the coplications of emotions.
That's a fancy way of saying I've got my hands full with one gal.
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RE: Polyamory
September 10, 2017 at 11:19 pm
I say let people do what they want. Having multiple partners is probably not sustainable in the long term, but we don't need to confine ourselves to one exact mole of man + woman in lifelong marriage. Anymore than we need to confine ourselves to only dating people of the opposite sex, or embracing whatever body parts we were born with, or anything else. Do what makes you happy, as long as you aren't hurting anyone else.
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RE: Polyamory
September 10, 2017 at 11:19 pm
(September 10, 2017 at 10:01 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: Dealing with one whiny male at a time is enough.
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RE: Polyamory
September 10, 2017 at 11:38 pm
(September 10, 2017 at 11:19 pm)Chad32 Wrote: I say let people do what they want. Having multiple partners is probably not sustainable in the long term, but we don't need to confine ourselves to one exact mole of man + woman in lifelong marriage. Anymore than we need to confine ourselves to only dating people of the opposite sex, or embracing whatever body parts we were born with, or anything else. Do what makes you happy, as long as you aren't hurting anyone else.
Depends on the people . My two primary girlfriends have been with me 5 and 6 years respective .
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RE: Polyamory
September 10, 2017 at 11:45 pm
My husband and I have a polyamorous relationship. If we ever decide to go back to being solely monogamous, then it'll be our decision. We've left ourselves an out. And we also have a lot of trust. It doesn't work for everyone, but the world would be a boring place if everyone worked the same way.
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RE: Polyamory
September 10, 2017 at 11:59 pm
(September 10, 2017 at 11:38 pm)Tizheruk Wrote: (September 10, 2017 at 11:19 pm)Chad32 Wrote: I say let people do what they want. Having multiple partners is probably not sustainable in the long term, but we don't need to confine ourselves to one exact mole of man + woman in lifelong marriage. Anymore than we need to confine ourselves to only dating people of the opposite sex, or embracing whatever body parts we were born with, or anything else. Do what makes you happy, as long as you aren't hurting anyone else.
Depends on the people . My two primary girlfriends have been with me 5 and 6 years respective .
That's cool.
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RE: Polyamory
September 11, 2017 at 1:04 am
(September 9, 2017 at 5:34 pm)Neo-Scholastic Wrote: (September 9, 2017 at 4:33 pm)Whateverist Wrote: Personally I prefer when my wife talks dirtier than "fornicate".
One time I asked my wife to talk dirty so she called me a cocksucker. I never asked again.
She nailed it on the first try, though.
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RE: Polyamory
September 11, 2017 at 8:22 am
(September 11, 2017 at 1:04 am)Minimalist Wrote: (September 9, 2017 at 5:34 pm)Neo-Scholastic Wrote: One time I asked my wife to talk dirty so she called me a cocksucker. I never asked again.
She nailed it on the first try, though.
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RE: Polyamory
September 11, 2017 at 11:07 am
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(September 9, 2017 at 7:19 am)Die Atheistin Wrote: What are your thoughts on polyamory?
I've had my polyamorous moments.
Although it seems usually I tend to be of the mindset that I could (in theory) fuck many people but only love one person (romantically) at a time... I could imagine myself in a polyamorous relationship.
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