I need some good first date questions

[paulpablo]

If someone is of the mindset of stealing cars and using fake phones and ID then what fill bringing a family member to a first date achieve?

If you're talking about a date that's already happening in public to begin with I mean.

[brewer]

It's a first date. Just keep it lite and talk about current events.

Or,.....

What's your credit score?

Where would you like to take me on vacation?

Are you a leg, butt or boob man?

Have you heard the good news?

Are you taking any prescription medications?

Does the government allow you to vote?

[Edwardo Piet]

Do you shower daily and is that your butt I can smell or do you just have really bad halitosis?

When you've eliminated all the questions NOT to ask you're left with the ones to ask!

[Crossless2.0]

When the time comes, do you prefer I stab you or use pepper spray?

[Edwardo Piet]

'Are you now or have you ever been a member of the Communist Party?'

'Do you cheat at Scrabble?'

'How did you pay for your gender reassignment surgery?'

'If Charles Lindbergh were alive today would you punch him in the face?'

'I collect human kneecaps. Does that bother you?'

Boru

Don't forget:

"I'm a descendant of Benito Mussolini, you know. What fascist dictator are you a descendant of and is it Hitler or are you not that fortunate?"

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When the time comes, do you prefer I stab you or use pepper spray?

How about a good old fashioned kick in the knackers?

Or should I perhaps bash you to death with my Big Black Rabbit?

[Brian37]

If someone is of the mindset of stealing cars and using fake phones and ID then what fill bringing a family member to a first date achieve?

If you're talking about a date that's already happening in public to begin with I mean.

That is the point. 

How do you know if you have no long term knowledge of someone you just met on line. 

"In public" no sorry, that is not enough. It is a start, but you also need to make family and friends aware as direct witnesses. A lagit person will understand. A con or predator doesn't want that direct contact with others their victim knows. 

Crimes, be they financial or sexual assault can start or happen in public too. Just because you are in public with a stranger, does not mean once they gain your confidence they wont convince you to go to a place with no witnesses. 

The only pragmatic safety is time and exposure of that person to the people you personally know. Criminals and sexual predators can meet you in public at first, gain your trust, then hurt you when they convince you to go to an isolated location.

And even without rape, a good con can get your personal info in public and fleece you without you knowing.

Having a buddy system when you first meet someone a lagit person will understand.

[energizer bunny]

If i were a criminal i would welcome a friend or family to come along. That way you gain their trust too. 

[Thumpalumpacus]

If you like him, ask him about himself.

If you don't like him, ask him how he feels about marriage.

[rexbeccarox]

If someone is of the mindset of stealing cars and using fake phones and ID then what fill bringing a family member to a first date achieve?

If you're talking about a date that's already happening in public to begin with I mean.

That is the point. 

How do you know if you have no long term knowledge of someone you just met on line. 

That's the point. You don't know either way.

"In public" no sorry, that is not enough. It is a start, but you also need to make family and friends aware as direct witnesses. A lagit person will understand. A con or predator doesn't want that direct contact with others their victim knows. 

Yes; I make friends or family aware of every first, second, third, etc. I go on. We have plans and procedures for worst-cases. I don't have to haul them along with me.

Crimes, be they financial or sexual assault can start or happen in public too. Just because you are in public with a stranger, does not mean once they gain your confidence they wont convince you to go to a place with no witnesses. 

They can also start or happen with loved ones present.

The only pragmatic safety is time and exposure of that person to the people you personally know. Criminals and sexual predators can meet you in public at first, gain your trust, then hurt you when they convince you to go to an isolated location.

Aaaand you don't think that could all happen if you have chaperones for first dates??

And even without rape, a good con can get your personal info in public and fleece you without you knowing.

And what difference would friends or family make?

Having a buddy system when you first meet someone a lagit person will understand.

Cool. You do you.

Also, it's "legit".

[Foxaèr]

That is the point. 

How do you know if you have no long term knowledge of someone you just met on line. 

That's the point. You don't know either way.

"In public" no sorry, that is not enough. It is a start, but you also need to make family and friends aware as direct witnesses. A lagit person will understand. A con or predator doesn't want that direct contact with others their victim knows. 

Yes; I make friends or family aware of every first, second, third, etc. I go on. We have plans and procedures for worst-cases. I don't have to haul them along with me.

Crimes, be they financial or sexual assault can start or happen in public too. Just because you are in public with a stranger, does not mean once they gain your confidence they wont convince you to go to a place with no witnesses. 

They can also start or happen with loved ones present.

The only pragmatic safety is time and exposure of that person to the people you personally know. Criminals and sexual predators can meet you in public at first, gain your trust, then hurt you when they convince you to go to an isolated location.

Aaaand you don't think that could all happen if you have chaperones for first dates??

And even without rape, a good con can get your personal info in public and fleece you without you knowing.

And what difference would friends or family make?

Having a buddy system when you first meet someone a lagit person will understand.

Cool. You do you.

Also, it's "legit".

Girl, you're not around here enough.