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Have you ever been ghosted?
May 4, 2020 at 12:41 am
Have you ever been ghosted?
I now leave out the question "why" - because that is the special thing with ghosting that you are NEVER told the reason for it!
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RE: Have you ever been ghosted?
May 4, 2020 at 12:58 am
I was seeing a women for close to 6 months and "things were going great" Then towards the end went quiet. Then she messaged me saying that she dated another guy and that it never worked out with them.
I wasn't happy with that and we agreed to talk things over. In the end she never text me again even though she had arrange a meet up.
From there I moved on, gave her a couple of months then removed her from social media and never contacted her again. And yes it is the cowards way, she has to try her best now to avoid me and I love that, I mean do I still mean that much to her lol.
If she called me tomorrow she'll be told to Fuck Off.
Ghosting is a form of mental abuse.
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RE: Have you ever been ghosted?
May 4, 2020 at 2:29 am
I haven't been ghosted by anyone I've been in a relationship with or ghosted them.
I've ghosted people and been ghosted by people I've been dating or talking to and been about to go on a date with.
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RE: Have you ever been ghosted?
May 4, 2020 at 5:35 am
(This post was last modified: May 4, 2020 at 5:36 am by Dundee.)
I have been ghosted once in real life.
From one day to the next. Abruptly.
With no explanation given. It was just terrible.
Half a year later I got some kind of explanation.
But I still think that it was quite an absurd explanation.
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RE: Have you ever been ghosted?
May 4, 2020 at 5:40 am
Wow, I'm getting severe deja vu from this thread.
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RE: Have you ever been ghosted?
May 4, 2020 at 6:50 am
A couple of people have tried.
I "ghosted" them first.
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RE: Have you ever been ghosted?
May 4, 2020 at 9:25 am
I'm not familiar with the term. Is being ghosted the same thing as being stalked by someone?
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RE: Have you ever been ghosted?
May 4, 2020 at 12:20 pm
(May 4, 2020 at 9:25 am)Gwaithmir Wrote: I'm not familiar with the term. Is being ghosted the same thing as being stalked by someone?
It's sort of the opposite of stalking.
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