Are you sure you’re not confusing transgender and gender fluid, John?
"Never trust a fox. Looks like a dog, behaves like a cat."
~ Erin Hunter
~ Erin Hunter
Why are transgender people more likely to commit suicide?
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Are you sure you’re not confusing transgender and gender fluid, John?
"Never trust a fox. Looks like a dog, behaves like a cat."
~ Erin Hunter RE: Why are transgender people more likely to commit suicide?
July 25, 2020 at 11:38 am
(This post was last modified: July 25, 2020 at 11:39 am by John 6IX Breezy.)
(July 25, 2020 at 11:33 am)Eleven Wrote: Are you sure you’re not confusing transgender and gender fluid, John? Yeah, that's what I want to make sure of. From my understanding transgender specifically refers to individuals that feel an incongruence; but if transgender is an even bigger umbrella term that includes things like gender fluid, then that changes things. (July 25, 2020 at 11:24 am)John 6IX Breezy Wrote:(July 25, 2020 at 10:50 am)TaraJo Wrote: Are there trans people who just plain ol' don't have dysphoria? I suppose, but I'm forced to question why they would transition in the first place. If transitioning put you through some of the pain and suffering I went through, why would someone choose to do that unless they felt like there was no other way? At very least I'm going to say that there are very real and very important differences between dysphoric and non-dysphoric trans people. It is, I think, a spectrum. No one should care, especially, if the individual in question does not. Unless it is causing distress for a particular individual (I, for one, am completely at peace with myself), then, it's not an issue; I think that the DSM-V reflects that. Gender, unlike biological sex, is not completely binary. (July 25, 2020 at 11:24 am)John 6IX Breezy Wrote:(July 25, 2020 at 10:50 am)TaraJo Wrote: Are there trans people who just plain ol' don't have dysphoria? I suppose, but I'm forced to question why they would transition in the first place. If transitioning put you through some of the pain and suffering I went through, why would someone choose to do that unless they felt like there was no other way? At very least I'm going to say that there are very real and very important differences between dysphoric and non-dysphoric trans people. That does make a lot of sense. But there's still a significant difference between dysphoric transgender people and non-dysphoric transgender people. I think that difference is still important, especially if we're calculating suicide statistics. If you're dysphoric, you have something internal, something inside you and your mind, that is causing you discomfort. You can't escape it. If you're nondysphoric, you don't have that. I can easily see how the discomfort from dysphoria could cause someone to commit suicide. Hell, it almost did that to me.
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My guess is that it's damn hard to live in a body that feels foreign in some ways. It costs a lot of money to transition, and it's still not a "perfect" process. Families often disown trans members. It's hard to find a job when you don't necessarily "look" the gender you dress/identify as, etc. It's not an easy life on any level, whether you remain your birth gender or your transition. Given these hardships, I'm not at all surprised there is a high suicide rate among trans people. The better question is how do we fix it.
People can start by not being asshats to one another. Accept others for who they are. The way I see it, there are two classifications of humans, cool ones, and cuntmuffins.
(July 25, 2020 at 2:53 pm)Shell B Wrote: My guess is that it's damn hard to live in a body that feels foreign in some ways. It costs a lot of money to transition, and it's still not a "perfect" process. Families often disown trans members. It's hard to find a job when you don't necessarily "look" the gender you dress/identify as, etc. It's not an easy life on any level, whether you remain your birth gender or your transition. Given these hardships, I'm not at all surprised there is a high suicide rate among trans people. The better question is how do we fix it. And puberty must be like a really fucked-up case of body horror. Imagine being a girl wanting to improve her bust and instead finding that, a penis is growing, and because puberty works that way for boys, you’re frequently pitching Tents at complete random with an organ you never wanted. Of course, this doesn’t apply if you transition later in life. Am I at least getting this accurate, Tara?
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I was born with the gift of laughter and a sense the world is mad. (July 25, 2020 at 2:53 pm)Shell B Wrote: My guess is that it's damn hard to live in a body that feels foreign in some ways. It costs a lot of money to transition, and it's still not a "perfect" process. Families often disown trans members. It's hard to find a job when you don't necessarily "look" the gender you dress/identify as, etc. It's not an easy life on any level, whether you remain your birth gender or your transition. Given these hardships, I'm not at all surprised there is a high suicide rate among trans people. The better question is how do we fix it. I think that most transgender individuals do not undergo sexual reassignment surgery. I do not feel that my body "is foreign"; I just view myself as being a "woman with a penis" (blush). Sorry to be explicit, but, I think that's how most of us look at things. (July 25, 2020 at 10:50 am)TaraJo Wrote:The answer seems sort of simple . Too be who you really are .(July 25, 2020 at 8:43 am)SUNGULA Wrote: Accept that it is and not having it means trans people are not necessarily Dysphoric and your attempts at minimization changes nothing .
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Nemo sicut deus debet esse! “No matter what men think, abortion is a fact of life. Women have always had them; they always have and they always will. Are they going to have good ones or bad ones? Will the good ones be reserved for the rich, while the poor women go to quacks?” –SHIRLEY CHISHOLM
I guess that being Trans must be a bit like being on the autism spectrum, specifically because the spectrum is so broad that it can be kinda hard to get ahold of a single narrative that says: "This is what being trans is like." At least, as long as you really want to figure it out and don't want to latch onto an easy-to-understand narrative to save time and effort, anyway.
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