Inceldom

[FrustratedFool]

@GrandizerII

Is someone's face them, or merely something attached to them?

If I blame my failure in dating on my ugly face, am I blaming myself?

What if I blame my neurodiversity?

[Silver]

All of this back and forth is pointless, because I live in the city.

[FrustratedFool]

All of this back and forth is pointless, because I live in the city.

That is by the far the best place to increase your chance of a relationship regardless of looks or personality. Especially if you're a sexual minority. Incels and BPers talk a lot about geomaxxing, which boils down to moving to a place where you increase your chances of being able to find a relationship. Sounds like practical advice.

[zwanzig]

I only brought it up because I've seen people who are in their 30's looking 60, weathered and worn down from drink and likely drugs, with big families and loving long-term relationships. I've seen a guy like in the photo posted just a few pages back starting a family with an uneducated baptist girl who works at the DG.

I just found it a good opportunity to point out an inconsistency about how much happiness FF has seen for ugly people when they keep trying to say they live in a small town. Mine must be the ugly capital, then. Because there are so many of them here and so many of them are getting laid.

[FrustratedFool]

I guess our lived experiences differ. I'm not sure what else I can say. Probably also what I call average you see as ugly.

Do you retract the accusation about me lying, or would you like some more confirmation first?

[zwanzig]

No, I remain skeptical. If you're neurodivergent though, this might not be deliberately trolling. You're just fixated and stubborn. Me too sometimes about certain things.

[FrustratedFool]

I'm unsure as to whether I'm neurodiverse. Probably not.

But I do know that I'm not lying or trolling. I just have a different life experience to you.

How would you like me to confirm to you where I live?

[zwanzig]

Alrighty. I'm gonna step back because this is awkward now and nobody is asking you to confirm anything? I mean, you can accept I am still undecided on the troll question or not. And I'm not a mod, so you've got nothing to prove.

[FrustratedFool]

If people believe I am a troll or liar on a forum it makes it impossible to engage in sincere and profitable discourse. Given that I enjoy profitable discourse, this is a loss to me. Since having people publicly declare I am a liar and a troll increases the chance of others believeing that, it behoves me to challenge unsubstantiated smears against my character. If you want me to convince you that you are wrong in order to have you retract your false accusation I'm willing to try my best to do so.

By making an accusation and not allowing me chance to demonstrate its falsity or have you retract it, you make us both look the worse.

So, how can I best convince you I am not lying about where I live?

[zwanzig]

If people believe I am a troll or liar on a forum it makes it impossible to engage in sincere and profitable discourse. Given that I enjoy profitable discourse, this is a loss to me. Since having people publicly declare I am a liar and a troll increases the chance of others believeing that, it behoves me to challenge unsubstantiated smears against my character. If you want me to convince you that you are wrong in order to have you retract your false accusation I'm willing to try my best to do so.

By making an accusation and not allowing me chance to demonstrate its falsity or have you retract it, you make us both look the worse.

So, how can I best convince you I am not lying about where I live?

I will take this post as written as a sign of sincerity and retract the accusation. I apologize to you and in front of the whole forum.