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Orgasms and Pain Control
#21
RE: Orgasms and Pain Control
Sex with strangers = good time, IMO.

Sex with people I have to talk to later...erm...awkward...


j/k.

I have had the same girlfriend for about a year now. Before her, though, the above pretty much applied...
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#22
RE: Orgasms and Pain Control
i love sex =) great topic!

that being said... i find the best sex is pleasing the person you are having sex with ( non-selfish sex )
and doing it with someone you really love
"You know, I know this steak doesn't exist. I know that when I put it in my mouth, the Matrix is telling my brain that it is juicy and delicious. After nine years, you know what I realize? Ignorance is bliss." -Cypher (the matrix)
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#23
RE: Orgasms and Pain Control
(May 16, 2011 at 5:22 am)Eudaimonia Wrote: My previous statements reveal my admittedly biased assumptions.. as I do not know many people, mainly women, who are able to walk away from such an intimate act without it affecting them emotionally in some way even if they dislike the person..

We are sensory beings.. and as such are emotional beings.. even if our bonding emotions are not expressed or felt the same way... The only type of humans I am aware of who are able to experience invasive intimacy and feel nothing are criminally minded... That is all...

I wouldn't be having sex with someone I do not like.

I *can* be unaffected by sex, doesn't mean I typically am. Usually sexual acts from others cause me only aggravation, as they didn't intend to finish what they started. When they do 'go all the way', they are done long before I'd like. Sex typically affects me negatively, which really is my folly more than anything (believing that it might be enjoyable when I know it's probably not).

How do I deal with negative things? I distance myself emotionally from them. I'll take being 'criminally minded' over tears every day Heart Smile
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Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
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