(October 8, 2015 at 1:30 pm)lkingpinl Wrote: So based on that and my OP am I a "bad" Christian or a "good" one?

I don't know which Christian denomination you're in, but when you enter any of them like Mormons, Jehova's Witness, KKK, Chatolicism etc. you subscribe to their rules, you don't get to make the rules but follow them and if you don't you're just a heretic meaning that in the future you'll regret it and go back to the "real path" or leave that denomination all together.
Not to mention that porn was something invented because of Christianity. There are many sources for this, but I remember watching one of Terry Jones's documentaries on old Rome and he noted that Romans and antics world didn't need porn since they had sex everywhere either by unscrupulous people or by prostitution.

(October 8, 2015 at 3:06 pm)Parkers Tan Wrote: When I was a churchgoer, I don't once remember sex being discussed. That indicates to me that it is not doctrine, but rather the personal views of believers.

What, you didn't go to Westboro Baptist church? Or you haven't heard of Papal 1995, the Pontifical Council for the Family saying that "parents must also reject the promotion of so-called "safe sex" or "safer sex", a dangerous and immoral policy based on the deluded theory that the condom can provide adequate protection against AIDS."

Or Chatolic banning vaccination against HPV that despite studies showing no apparent increase in sexual activity following HPV vaccination, Focus on the Family, a conservative American religious organization, favored abstinence over vaccination: The seriousness of HPV and other STIs underscores the significance of God’s design for sexuality to human wellbeing. Thus Focus on the Family affirms—above any available health intervention—abstinence until marriage as the best and primary practice in preventing HPV and other STIs.

Catholic Church has been one of the biggest opponents of mandatory HPV vaccination. Catholic bishop of Calgary, Fred Henry, publicly opposed endorsement of the vaccine by Catholic school boards in Canada—schools funded by the government—because it would “undermine the schools’ effort to teach children about abstinence and chastity in accord with the teachings of the Catholic Church.” Pressure from the Catholic Church has also halted the administration of anti-HPV vaccines in Trinidad and Tobago, with the church going so far as to question, in the face of all scientific fact, the safety of the vaccine.

And also you can do a little experiment yourself. Go to any Chatolic church and into confession room and say "Father I have sinned I live with a woman with whome I'm not married and have wild monkey sex six times a day, in fact just as I finish this confession I'm going pronto home where she is waiting for me to have sex for the next three hours." He will be angry at you and not even give you absolution, but tell you first to stop this heathen realtionship and then come back to hear how much hail maries and our fathers you need to pray.

Then go to next Chatolic church and into confession room and say "Father I have sinned. I am married and have 1 child and me and my wife have sex five times a day and every time with condoms. In fact I just bought condoms and after I'm finished here I'll go and spend three condoms on her vagina." You'll get the sam shtick from that "father".

Never understood the whole "Christians are all prudes" thing. Sure they preach a lot of holier-than-thou but all the women I've been with have been Christian and fuck me sideways... well, they did just that.

Also; porn's great for a quick dose of stress reliever in my book, regardless of how consistent the sex life is.

(October 8, 2015 at 3:23 pm)Jenny A Wrote:

(October 8, 2015 at 3:20 pm)Parkers Tan Wrote: Lord, make me chaste – but not yet -- Augustine

Yeah, but he was a dirty Catholic.

Those are the best type.

(October 9, 2015 at 3:11 am)Fake Messiah Wrote:

(October 8, 2015 at 3:06 pm)Parkers Tan Wrote: When I was a churchgoer, I don't once remember sex being discussed. That indicates to me that it is not doctrine, but rather the personal views of believers.

What, you didn't go to Westboro Baptist church? Or you haven't heard of Papal 1995, the Pontifical Council for the Family saying that "parents must also reject the promotion of so-called "safe sex" or "safer sex", a dangerous and immoral policy based on the deluded theory that the condom can provide adequate protection against AIDS."

Or Chatolic banning vaccination against HPV that despite studies showing no apparent increase in sexual activity following HPV vaccination, Focus on the Family, a conservative American religious organization, favored abstinence over vaccination: The seriousness of HPV and other STIs underscores the significance of God’s design for sexuality to human wellbeing. Thus Focus on the Family affirms—above any available health intervention—abstinence until marriage as the best and primary practice in preventing HPV and other STIs.

Catholic Church has been one of the biggest opponents of mandatory HPV vaccination. Catholic bishop of Calgary, Fred Henry, publicly opposed endorsement of the vaccine by Catholic school boards in Canada—schools funded by the government—because it would “undermine the schools’ effort to teach children about abstinence and chastity in accord with the teachings of the Catholic Church.” Pressure from the Catholic Church has also halted the administration of anti-HPV vaccines in Trinidad and Tobago, with the church going so far as to question, in the face of all scientific fact, the safety of the vaccine.

And also you can do a little experiment yourself. Go to any Chatolic church and into confession room and say "Father I have sinned I live with a woman with whome I'm not married and have wild monkey sex six times a day, in fact just as I finish this confession I'm going pronto home where she is waiting for me to have sex for the next three hours." He will be angry at you and not even give you absolution, but tell you first to stop this heathen realtionship and then come back to hear how much hail maries and our fathers you need to pray.

Then go to next Chatolic church and into confession room and say "Father I have sinned. I am married and have 1 child and me and my wife have sex five times a day and every time with condoms. In fact I just bought condoms and after I'm finished here I'll go and spend three condoms on her vagina." You'll get the sam shtick from that "father".

Of course! That defines the totality of the Christian experience. Stupid me, what was I thinking?

Oh, yeah, I was thinking about how they actually are, and not the stereotypes I once cherished.

You might want to try that out.

Not really the point. What drags religion into less repute than it might otherwise enjoy is not that the occasional egregious statement is made, but rather that there's no inbuilt mechanism to fact-check these things afterwards. Hence the same discredited views get amplified through repetition in a sort of positive feedback loop - what has become known as Unsinkable Rubber Duck arguments, or PRATTs (Points Refuted A Thousand Times).

(October 5, 2015 at 8:41 pm)lkingpinl Wrote: Porn to me is just not appealing.  Watching other people do it does not get me in the mood.

It doesn't have to be other people. Make some homemade for when the missus isn't around.

Best porn I ever 'came across' is a video I made of my Sam enjoying a friend. Even and probably especially now it never fails to work on me.

Wow!!!

I made a video for Tarty once. Can't remember if I ever sent it to him.

Perhaps it's something I could share in A69 if everyone is agreeable. I've always been so proud of my little porn star, we never had any qualms about sharing our adventures. It's one reason we submitted our pictures to the top shelf magazine Escort. That and the money.