There's planning and then there's being artificial or "contrived".

Nothing wrong with being non-spontaneous, but there is something wrong with being artificial or fake.

I myself am very spontaneous. But plans are fine when you're not fake.

What does making or not making plans have to do with being fake? The two aren't mutually exclusive.

(October 27, 2016 at 11:35 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: Boyz II Men is excellent

Jesus, dude, I didn't even have to quote mine you for that.

CIJS

You need to come out of that little delusional bubble of yours. If not, don't be surprised when it gets popped by a friend who was finally sick and tired of all the massive sugar-coating and bullshit they had to wade through just to tolerate you.


Also.... To my BFF of 35 years: I told you before, the next time you get in a fight with your man, not to tell me about it because you never let the advice I give you sink in and you always give him a free pass for his abusive behavior. Marriage doesn't work that way, honey. If he's being disrespectful to you, what do you think is going to change that if you don't speak up and do something about it? You let him think he can just walk the fuck all over you each and every single time. You are my best friend, and I love you like a sister, but this is killing me. I have been down this road before, and as you know, look how that turned out. Is that really what you want for your own life? Quit enabling his behavior. Please. There is plenty of room here if you need a place to stay for a few days.

Cijsaijbh...I laugh at you, not with you.

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(November 3, 2016 at 7:02 pm)Nymphadora Wrote: What does making or not making plans have to do with being fake? The two aren't mutually exclusive.

It was a joke, fer Chrissakes.

(November 3, 2016 at 7:02 pm)Nymphadora Wrote: What does making or not making plans have to do with being fake? The two aren't mutually exclusive.

That was exactly my point.

CIJSAIJBH

I love the way you're straight with me and say when I'm bothering you. I love the way it's so easy to clear things up whenever there's a misunderstanding and how it's always been easy like that. I love how real you are. I love how you see how real I am. I love the way you let me be myself and see me for me. I love the way you stick up for me and see the good in me. I love the way you don't pretend I'm not bothering you or pretend to like me.

I love the way you're so damn fucking awesome and never dissimulate.

I love the way you are fully open and honest with me. I love the way you're always there for me and how you're so accepting of me.

You're awesome, thank you for continuing to be such an awesome friend and for making me feel so valued and making it clear that you feel the same way. There's no messing about with you.

We have a good thing

(November 4, 2016 at 12:37 pm)Thumpalumpacus Wrote:

(November 3, 2016 at 7:02 pm)Nymphadora Wrote: What does making or not making plans have to do with being fake? The two aren't mutually exclusive.

It was a joke, fer Chrissakes.

It went right over my head and below my knees. Either that or I'm just too stupid to get it

CIJS ... I miss you.