I had never been called 'daddy' by anyone other than my kids when they were young, so it came as a surprise when my wife, while we were still dating, called me that during sex. If someone had asked me prior to my meeting her if I would like that, I probably would have said no: only my children do that and it's infantile for a grown woman to say that to her SO.

But, to be honest, I found it pretty sexy. It didn't put me off at all. There weren't any alarms going off in my head. I didn't suddenly flash on some memory of my children as toddlers -- nothing like that. I wouldn't like it if she called me Daddy in any other context, and she doesn't. But in the bedroom? It's all good.

I mean, why the hell not? After all, the first time she said it to me she was encouraging me to . . . *ahem* . . . feed her.

I think a simple way to view it is if it's not something you're attracted to then don't do it, if they're not someone you're attracted to then don't do them. It's not really possible to judge a person's character based on something as insignificant as how they behave when they're horny.

(November 13, 2016 at 9:52 am)Losty Wrote: I think a simple way to view it is if it's not something you're attracted to then don't do it, if they're not someone you're attracted to then don't do them. It's not really possible to judge a person's character based on something as insignificant as how they behave when they're horny.

Yeah, and neither is it about manipulation, as someone else said lol.

Very true.

In fact, speaking purely for myself, my character and how I behave is very often the exact opposite when I'm horny lol.

For me personally at least: Sex is an escape from the bullshit of real life.

(November 13, 2016 at 9:51 am)Crossless1 Wrote: I had never been called 'daddy' by anyone other than my kids when they were young, so it came as a surprise when my wife, while we were still dating, called me that during sex. If someone had asked me prior to my meeting her if I would like that, I probably would have said no: only my children do that and it's infantile for a grown woman to say that to her SO.

But, to be honest, I found it pretty sexy. It didn't put me off at all. There weren't any alarms going off in my head. I didn't suddenly flash on some memory of my children as toddlers -- nothing like that. I wouldn't like it if she called me Daddy in any other context, and she doesn't. But in the bedroom? It's all good.

I mean, why the hell not? After all, the first time she said it to me she was encouraging me to . . . *ahem* . . . feed her.

Yep, I'd get on board for that real quick.  I mean, who can resist a hungry infantile person?

(November 13, 2016 at 9:52 am)Losty Wrote: I think a simple way to view it is if it's not something you're attracted to then don't do it, if they're not someone you're attracted to then don't do them. It's not really possible to judge a person's character based on something as insignificant as how they behave when they're horny.

So very much this ^^^.

(November 13, 2016 at 9:57 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote:

(November 13, 2016 at 9:52 am)Losty Wrote: I think a simple way to view it is if it's not something you're attracted to then don't do it, if they're not someone you're attracted to then don't do them. It's not really possible to judge a person's character based on something as insignificant as how they behave when they're horny.

Yeah, and neither is it about manipulation, as someone else said lol.

Not at all necessarily but it seems very likely in at least some cases.

Bewbs makes everything better.

'nuff said

(November 13, 2016 at 9:57 am)Alasdair Ham Wrote: Very true.

In fact, speaking purely for myself, my character and how I behave is very often the exact opposite when I'm horny lol.

For me personally at least: Sex is an escape from the bullshit of real life.

Different strokes for different folks.  For me sex is a sacrament.  When I feed my 'baby' I'm really feeding the goddess herself. 

(November 13, 2016 at 10:02 am)Alasdair Ham Wrote: Bewbs makes everything better.

'nuff said

Yeah, nothing wrong with babies with bewbies calling me daddy.

Huh? Wut?