(September 14, 2017 at 4:45 pm)Europa! Wrote: What do people like you think of the Welfare system in this country?

Murrica?  That it fails to secure the range and amount of necessities it should.  

Quote:In theory I think it is good, but I think if unchecked it could lead to laziness and sloth.

I;ve never been made aware of anything which suggests that not starving or dying of exposure leads to laziness and sloth.  I wonder how much work gets done on an empty stomach by a person with nowhere to sleep.  

Quote:Why are the poor so poor? Often they have no concept of work or really family history of owning property and keeping everything in order.

Same reason that the rich are rich, in Murrica.  Mommy and Daddy were poor, or mommy and daddy were rich.  This, more than any other factor, is most strongly correlated with your eventual socioeconomic status.  More than education, more than testable intelligence.  More than the man-hours of labor worked (by far).  There was greater social mobility in feudal europe, Europa.  You could at least kill the man with the stuff, then, and assume ownership.  

Quote:If we take away the welfare from people who don't really earn it I just think they'd have the incentive to get off their rumps and actually work for a living.

The people on wlfare work harder and for less than anyone else in the country.  That's why they're on welfare.  Doydoydoydoy.

Quote:Women would definitely be disincentivized to have numerous bastard children outside of wedlock.

Unlikely, they've always done so.  Whores, amiright? 

Quote:Maybe if Boqueesha stopped birthing babies by 10 different fathers (and get paid handsomey for each one) she'd be able to imrpove her own life for a change.

Any thoughts?

That her name is more likely to be Britney by brute force of demographics. She's a bottle blonde from the rural south who just adores you.

Quote:@ Nymphadora. Assuming your domestic partner is a person of the opposite gender, he would do you a world of good by putting a ring on your finger and making an honest woman out of you.

If your marrried the kids would have a real mother and father and not suffer the stigma of having their parents just "shacking up" as opposed to being wed.

Heck even if the two of you are lesbians, you can marry now. Its the law of the land. Get on it and get married!

You are a regressive asshole with medieval views of family .Go back to return of kings were your kind belong

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(September 14, 2017 at 6:24 pm)Nymphadora Wrote:

(September 14, 2017 at 6:04 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Don't get mad guys, it's funny

But it isn't though. Not to people like me. I find that an insult. We get SNAP benefits to the tune of a whopping $194 a month. That's got to feed five fucking people. 

And before the newly minted resident asswipe comes in and assumes I buy junk food with that money - think again. We get enough meat and produce to last three weeks. I buy flour in 25 pound sacks. We don't get processed foods except for bread, peanut butter (for the kids) and other necessities. I do what I can with what I have to work with. Rob works 45 hours a week and has to pay child support for children that we have the exact amount of time that his ex has them. She shouldn't be getting any child support at all since she's got a damn job. We have one car because we can't afford two cars. He gets a ride to and from work most days and he donates plasma a few times a month to help carry us through. 

People who think this is funny obviously don't have a clue as to what it's like to struggle. Christmas is coming up along with three birthdays all before that and I am trying to figure out how I'm not going to disappoint my kids this year. 

Many times we struggle with putting dinner on the table so no. None of this is funny to me.

As someone who has worked with people in your situation . I sympathize .

Hahahsha!!!

(September 14, 2017 at 6:20 pm)Europa! Wrote: @ Nymphadora. Assuming your domestic partner is a person of the opposite gender, he would do you a world of good by putting a ring on your finger and making an honest woman out of you.

If your marrried the kids would have a real mother and father and not suffer the stigma of having their parents just "shacking up" as opposed to being wed.

Heck even if the two of you are lesbians, you can marry now. Its the law of the land. Get on it and get married!

The "stigma" you mention only exists now in the minds of a small percentage of individuals, many of whom also whine about immigrants, the people on welfare, and, to a lesser extent, women working.

Many of those I refer to above would have a problem with a single woman in her early thirties, with no kids, who is putting her career before anything else.

Marriage, especially as a religious construct, has little meaning in a modern and fast changing world.

(September 14, 2017 at 6:20 pm)Europa! Wrote: @ Nymphadora. Assuming your domestic partner is a person of the opposite gender, he would do you a world of good by putting a ring on your finger and making an honest woman out of you.

If your marrried the kids would have a real mother and father and not suffer the stigma of having their parents just "shacking up" as opposed to being wed.

Heck even if the two of you are lesbians, you can marry now. Its the law of the land. Get on it and get married!

OMG Fuck off you asshole. What makes you think I want to even marry him? I have two kids from my past. One is an adult the other is 15. His two kids that live with us half the time are from his previous marriage. We are still a family and we still struggle to make things work. 

Buying a ring and getting a piece of paper won't change any of that except for the fact that I would lose my disability benefits because he makes too much money. 

Your crack about my kids having a real mother is priceless. They HAVE a real mother. I don't need to prove shit to you either.

(September 14, 2017 at 6:29 pm)Nymphadora Wrote:

(September 14, 2017 at 6:20 pm)Europa! Wrote: @ Nymphadora. Assuming your domestic partner is a person of the opposite gender, he would do you a world of good by putting a ring on your finger and making an honest woman out of you.

If your marrried the kids would have a real mother and father and not suffer the stigma of having their parents just "shacking up" as opposed to being wed.

Heck even if the two of you are lesbians, you can marry now. Its the law of the land. Get on it and get married!

OMG Fuck off you asshole. What makes you think I want to even marry him? I have two kids from my past. One is an adult the other is 15. His two kids that live with us half the time are from his previous marriage. We are still a family and we still struggle to make things work. 

Buying a ring and getting a piece of paper won't change any of that except for the fact that I would lose my disability benefits because he makes too much money. 

Your crack about my kids having a real mother is priceless. They HAVE a real mother. I don't need to prove shit to you either.

Geez,,settle down Ms. touchy!

Was it something I said   ?

The stigma of being a bastard no longer exists . Get back to 1427 the village is missing it's idiot .

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Quote:Geez,,settle down Ms. touchy!

Was it something I said   ?

Maybe it's the fact your a asshole who hold outdated and absurd views of her entire sex .

^ I do not. I am very sensitive and kind!!

(September 14, 2017 at 6:24 pm)Nymphadora Wrote:

(September 14, 2017 at 6:04 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Don't get mad guys, it's funny

But it isn't though. Not to people like me. I find that an insult. We get SNAP benefits to the tune of a whopping $194 a month. That's got to feed five fucking people. 

And before the newly minted resident asswipe comes in and assumes I buy junk food with that money - think again. We get enough meat and produce to last three weeks. I buy flour in 25 pound sacks. We don't get processed foods except for bread, peanut butter (for the kids) and other necessities. I do what I can with what I have to work with. Rob works 45 hours a week and has to pay child support for children that we have the exact amount of time that his ex has them. She shouldn't be getting any child support at all since she's got a damn job. We have one car because we can't afford two cars. He gets a ride to and from work most days and he donates plasma a few times a month to help carry us through. 

People who think this is funny obviously don't have a clue as to what it's like to struggle. Christmas is coming up along with three birthdays all before that and I am trying to figure out how I'm not going to disappoint my kids this year. 

Many times we struggle with putting dinner on the table so no. None of this is funny to me.

I'm really sorry you went through this.

The reason I think it's funny is because I know hes not serious. Hes just being obnoxious and trolly on purpose. Otherwise, yeah, it wouldn't be funny.

(September 14, 2017 at 6:21 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: He's just a young buck that thinks welfare is personally bleeding him dry. Anyone not like him is against him. 

Ah, to be young and dumb. Tell us again how you don't hate.

Republican. "Anything that doesn't benefit me directly and obviously is bad." That's why they had AGW, it might cost them money and they'd have to get the 75" TV instead of the 80" model. They'd be shamed before their friend.