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Forced To Live With An Obnoxious Person
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Forced To Live With An Obnoxious Person
So due to unfortunate circumstances, I'm forced to live with white trash. 

Let me tell you all you need to know about the behavior of these kind of people.

1. Trashing the house and pinning it on someone else. This person has had every dish in the house dirtied and left it that way for 3 months, because he was too god damn lazy to clean up after himself. They were molding, and attracting bugs like hell. This person expected me to clean up after him because he thinks that I'm his maid or daddy or something. Then he gets pissed when I refuse. The dishes I use are always in my bedroom now, and I only use these dishes and clean them after every use. The dishes out there still regularly get dirtied and stay that way, sometimes for weeks. And it's not just the dishes that get trashed. The entire house is the same story. From the dining room table to the living room floor. It's all the same story.

2. Blaming others for everything. On top of trying to blame me for his mess, he blames me for everything else as well. Every problem, every inconvenience, and every mistake he has ever made, he's found a way to blame it on me. If his video games are lagging due to having a slow rural internet, he thinks I'm somehow this master hacker. Yeah, because a guy that can barely make a calculator program in C++ and can only copy/paste Python scripts into Blender Game Engine is somehow able to hack into his own Wifi router, and then hack into his Playstation 4, his computer, his phone, and even his TV and fucking stereo. This is someone who knows nothing of computers, or even basic logic for that matter. If this were the 1800's and he had a horse that refused to cooperate, he'd probably accuse me of "hacking his horse" as well. Dumbass. On top of blaming me for his video games lagging or glitching, he also accuses me of just about everything else, from him going to prison to his food coming up missing due to him forgetting about eating it. 

3. Oh yeah, the blatant double standards. As I mentioned, he'll blame me for his food going missing due to him forgetting about eating it, but he'll help himself to everyone else's food. Like with no problem at all, like an entitled brat on welfare, he'll just help himself to everyone else's shit. But then he'll throw the biggest bitch fit you've ever seen if he even thinks that someone touched his food. Or even his pans or whatever, for that matter... while using everyone else's dishes and pans, and keeping them dirty for weeks.

4. He believes his own lies. Like I said with how he thinks I somehow "hack" into everything, whatever the fuck that's supposed to mean, before he convinced himself of this lie, he was always accusing me of "downloading shit all day" whenever his games lagged. Not only that, but he convinces himself of his own lies on many other issues, as well. If he loses something, he accuses me of stealing it. Even though he finds it the next day, or sometimes 5 minutes later, he still contiues to convince himself that I steal his shit, just because he loses a sock or something. He's also somehow convinced himself that I'm some kind of sick sexual deviant with animals, when he went to prison for being exactly that... well, not with animals. He went to prison for statutory rape. For fucking a 12 year old when he was 17. Oh yeah, and he's racist, because he went to prison right along side the black people that he now hates. 

5. His complete, unadulterated ignorance. This kid hasn't picked up a book outside of school or prison once in his life. And it certainly hasn't been any kind of book that would expand his knowledge, if he has. He spends basically all of his free time playing video games, and bitching about the games lagging. Or watching a hockey game or some other stupid shit. Never anything to expand his mind. Then he thinks he knows it all when it comes to politics, because he occasionally watches Fox News or comes across a facebook meme. Or hears information from word of mouth at a shitty factory job that he'll forever work at. Then when it comes to science, he's completely uneducated. He thinks the universe is 6,000 years old, even though there are stars further than 6,000 lightyears away, and we can see them. Or how he thinks that chromosome counts are how scientists determine things are related, even though a donkey and horse have different chromosome counts and are so closely related that they could breed. Same might be possible with humans and chimps. Then on to climate change, where he thinks it's all a conspiracy theory created by Al Gore, even though scientists have known that CO2 traps long wave radiation, which the ground emits after absorbing the short wave radiation from the sun, since at least the mid 1800's. I doubt he's even heard the name Svante Arrhenius.

6. His lack of foresight. This is a guy with 6 children, all from different women. Too selfish to wear a condom, too stupid to resist the urge when she's not on the pill. His lack of foresight shows up in other ways, too.

7. He voted Trump, and used welfare when it benefitted him. I find that hilarious. 

So in conclusion, he trashes the house, refuses to clean it, then blames it on others. He blames all his problems, mistakes, and inconveniences on others, and he convinces himself of his own lies. He's ignorant, he lacks the ability to use basic logic, that is a =/= c, you need to establish a b in there somewhere, and has severe confirmation bias and cognitive dissonance. He's a double standard having hypocrite, and he's a Trump voter. He also lacks any foresigh. Sounds like white trash to me. 

This is exactly why I hate rednecks and rural people. Because I have to live with one of them. I know it's unfair to judge a whole group based on just one guy, but it's kind of hard not to.
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#2
RE: Forced To Live With An Obnoxious Person
I feel your pain. My sister was obnoxious growing up, and I can't be around my dad for long without us getting into an argument.
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#3
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I hope you feel better getting that off your chest. And though it may be inaccurate to stereotype, you've described like twenty people that I know PERFECTLY from the dirty dishes, to the welfare, to the Trump worship.

Stay sane.
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#4
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What do you mean forced? There are literally 0 circumstances that could force ME to live with such a person.
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#5
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Sounds like a pain. Regardless, not sure bringing the person's race into this has anything to do with it.
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-walsh
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#6
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What Capn said - how are you "forced"?  If it's your house, can't you kick him out?  If it's his house, can't you move? (Sorry if I missed something here, had to skim the post, gotta run . . . )  
I've known people like that - you have my sympathy.
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(January 15, 2018 at 12:11 pm)Mechaghostman2 Wrote: So due to unfortunate circumstances, I'm forced to live with white trash. 
Hahahaha, so am I.  My brother couldn't hold down a shitty factory job, though.  At least he didn't knock anybody up - or I'd have to find more employment to feed his brood.  

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#8
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Cyanide or curare.

More need not be said.

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#9
RE: Forced To Live With An Obnoxious Person
(January 15, 2018 at 12:11 pm)Mechaghostman2 Wrote: So due to unfortunate circumstances, I'm forced to live with white trash. 

Let me tell you all you need to know about the behavior of these kind of people.

1. Trashing the house and pinning it on someone else. This person has had every dish in the house dirtied and left it that way for 3 months, because he was too god damn lazy to clean up after himself. They were molding, and attracting bugs like hell. This person expected me to clean up after him because he thinks that I'm his maid or daddy or something. Then he gets pissed when I refuse. The dishes I use are always in my bedroom now, and I only use these dishes and clean them after every use. The dishes out there still regularly get dirtied and stay that way, sometimes for weeks. And it's not just the dishes that get trashed. The entire house is the same story. From the dining room table to the living room floor. It's all the same story.

2. Blaming others for everything. On top of trying to blame me for his mess, he blames me for everything else as well. Every problem, every inconvenience, and every mistake he has ever made, he's found a way to blame it on me. If his video games are lagging due to having a slow rural internet, he thinks I'm somehow this master hacker. Yeah, because a guy that can barely make a calculator program in C++ and can only copy/paste Python scripts into Blender Game Engine is somehow able to hack into his own Wifi router, and then hack into his Playstation 4, his computer, his phone, and even his TV and fucking stereo. This is someone who knows nothing of computers, or even basic logic for that matter. If this were the 1800's and he had a horse that refused to cooperate, he'd probably accuse me of "hacking his horse" as well. Dumbass. On top of blaming me for his video games lagging or glitching, he also accuses me of just about everything else, from him going to prison to his food coming up missing due to him forgetting about eating it. 

3. Oh yeah, the blatant double standards. As I mentioned, he'll blame me for his food going missing due to him forgetting about eating it, but he'll help himself to everyone else's food. Like with no problem at all, like an entitled brat on welfare, he'll just help himself to everyone else's shit. But then he'll throw the biggest bitch fit you've ever seen if he even thinks that someone touched his food. Or even his pans or whatever, for that matter... while using everyone else's dishes and pans, and keeping them dirty for weeks.

4. He believes his own lies. Like I said with how he thinks I somehow "hack" into everything, whatever the fuck that's supposed to mean, before he convinced himself of this lie, he was always accusing me of "downloading shit all day" whenever his games lagged. Not only that, but he convinces himself of his own lies on many other issues, as well. If he loses something, he accuses me of stealing it. Even though he finds it the next day, or sometimes 5 minutes later, he still contiues to convince himself that I steal his shit, just because he loses a sock or something. He's also somehow convinced himself that I'm some kind of sick sexual deviant with animals, when he went to prison for being exactly that... well, not with animals. He went to prison for statutory rape. For fucking a 12 year old when he was 17. Oh yeah, and he's racist, because he went to prison right along side the black people that he now hates. 

5. His complete, unadulterated ignorance. This kid hasn't picked up a book outside of school or prison once in his life. And it certainly hasn't been any kind of book that would expand his knowledge, if he has. He spends basically all of his free time playing video games, and bitching about the games lagging. Or watching a hockey game or some other stupid shit. Never anything to expand his mind. Then he thinks he knows it all when it comes to politics, because he occasionally watches Fox News or comes across a facebook meme. Or hears information from word of mouth at a shitty factory job that he'll forever work at. Then when it comes to science, he's completely uneducated. He thinks the universe is 6,000 years old, even though there are stars further than 6,000 lightyears away, and we can see them. Or how he thinks that chromosome counts are how scientists determine things are related, even though a donkey and horse have different chromosome counts and are so closely related that they could breed. Same might be possible with humans and chimps. Then on to climate change, where he thinks it's all a conspiracy theory created by Al Gore, even though scientists have known that CO2 traps long wave radiation, which the ground emits after absorbing the short wave radiation from the sun, since at least the mid 1800's. I doubt he's even heard the name Svante Arrhenius.

6. His lack of foresight. This is a guy with 6 children, all from different women. Too selfish to wear a condom, too stupid to resist the urge when she's not on the pill. His lack of foresight shows up in other ways, too.

7. He voted Trump, and used welfare when it benefitted him. I find that hilarious. 

So in conclusion, he trashes the house, refuses to clean it, then blames it on others. He blames all his problems, mistakes, and inconveniences on others, and he convinces himself of his own lies. He's ignorant, he lacks the ability to use basic logic, that is a =/= c, you need to establish a b in there somewhere, and has severe confirmation bias and cognitive dissonance. He's a double standard having hypocrite, and he's a Trump voter. He also lacks any foresigh. Sounds like white trash to me. 

This is exactly why I hate rednecks and rural people. Because I have to live with one of them. I know it's unfair to judge a whole group based on just one guy, but it's kind of hard not to.


OK, STOP right there

NO NO NO  and just NO.

Cleanliness and slobs are not a Red State vs Blue state issue. I am an atheist, I live in a trailer, and I am messy myself. I live alone so I can do that. My REDNECK friend from Oklahoma while he isn't bent on his apartment being a museum, KEEPS his apartment clean, because the landlord inspects it so that NO renter ends up allowing infestation of bugs. John is a LIBERAL Redneck, one of my best friends. And I have known him for 16 years. I can tell you he is not a slob, and has told me several times bugs bother the fuck out of him. 

Dolly Parton and Willie Nelson and Margo Price live in those Red Rural states you are slamming. I am quite sure if you went to their homes you would NOT find a mess.

I just got my entire HOUSE cleaned from my own HOARDING, and it WAS documentary bad, like you see on TV. I was born in Northern Virginia in a very liberal pluralistic county just outside DC.

POINT is your problem is the individual, not their state. I managed myself to clean up a bit, and I still have to buy a new house too. 

If someone is having that kind of problem, it is not region based, it is psychological. I know, I have lived in my own trash dump myself. I was dealing with my mom's health problems and emotionally so wiped out by the time I got home, I let things go.

This person you are dealing with has underlying problems that have nothing to do with what state they came from. I am NOT saying you have to put up with it, but you should be constructive and non judgmental in dealing with it. You are over simplifying it.

Psychological issues and addictions are not class or party based, not based on region. Mental health issues can affect anyone and  that is really what you are dealing with.
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I would flat out refuse to live with someone like that. I dont care what i had to do. I'd go back to living with my parents.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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