I'm 54...

It probably sounds odd to say but I've always found that a woman's body animated by a warm personality who enjoys and is enthusiastic about sex will appeal to me a great deal across a wide variety of shapes, and lets face it, there is greater variability among women's bodies. Doesn't mean I don't fixate on certain things like butt shape or mammary valleys, but within wide parameters I can appreciate many forms.

The reverse is usually also true. Women who are shaped in ways that seem intrinsically appealing who have no interest in (and likely no appreciation or talent for) sex would not be something I'd gravitate toward in real life. One attempt to warm a cold fish was usually enough to put me off for good when I was dating.

Definitely 9.

Weirdly I was talking to someone I know about the scale of 1 to 10 today, she's a lesbian, I'm pretty sure she knows I think she's good looking and we joke around about it but we were talking about other girls and their mark out of 10.

This is just how I work out the out of 10 scenario.
I don't think people go to extremes enough when considering the lower ranking, like 1 isn't just physically a bit ugly or not to your taste, 1 would be like the most physically deformed human on the planet.  You only get into the area of any remote attraction at around a 7.  In my estimation 6 is someone you'll sleep with for purely sexual needs if you're that type of person, 5 is getting to the area that I'd consider to be out of bounds unless I find myself in prison or something and this woman is a guard and I just need it.

Taking that into consideration, as harsh as it sounds, I would never begin to consider having sex with someone who I thought was 4 out of 10, that would be more like a punishment than a relief.

I could easily just have sex once a week, and the build up to it would be immense, and it's with a girl who's a 9, that sounds like a great deal to me, I'd sign up for that.

Very much depends on my partner. My primary partners a lot . non primary partners it random whenever they feel like it or have time.

(April 12, 2018 at 10:15 am)paulpablo Wrote: This is just how I work out the out of 10 scenario.
I don't think people go to extremes enough when considering the lower ranking, like 1 isn't just physically a bit ugly or not to your taste, 1 would be like the most physically deformed human on the planet.  You only get into the area of any remote attraction at around a 7.  In my estimation 6 is someone you'll sleep with for purely sexual needs if you're that type of person, 5 is getting to the area that I'd consider to be out of bounds unless I find myself in prison or something and this woman is a guard and I just need it.

Yeah, uh, maybe you're overthinking this a bit.

Once a week is fine with me. It's more important that it's with someone I have strong feelings for, and if they're a 9, chances are I will at least be attracted to them on a physical level.

(April 12, 2018 at 10:15 am)paulpablo Wrote: Weirdly I was talking to someone I know about the scale of 1 to 10 today, she's a lesbian, I'm pretty sure she knows I think she's good looking and we joke around about it but we were talking about other girls and their mark out of 10.

This is just how I work out the out of 10 scenario.
I don't think people go to extremes enough when considering the lower ranking, like 1 isn't just physically a bit ugly or not to your taste, 1 would be like the most physically deformed human on the planet.  You only get into the area of any remote attraction at around a 7.  In my estimation 6 is someone you'll sleep with for purely sexual needs if you're that type of person, 5 is getting to the area that I'd consider to be out of bounds unless I find myself in prison or something and this woman is a guard and I just need it.

Taking that into consideration, as harsh as it sounds, I would never begin to consider having sex with someone who I thought was 4 out of 10, that would be more like a punishment than a relief.

I could easily just have sex once a week, and the build up to it would be immense, and it's with a girl who's a 9, that sounds like a great deal to me, I'd sign up for that.

I dunno to me you have to put it even down the middle. 5 would be you don't really find them attractive but they aren't ugly either. Midway between 5 & 10 would be yes they are good looking. 10 is sexy as all get out. Going the other way midway between 1 & 5 is yeah that person is ugly. 1 being the wouldn't poke it with a stick. Since there are so few numbers on each side going up or down a number is a big deal. The difference between sleeping with a 7 & 8 is yeah that's cool and I'm totally wanting this.

In my world, a 9 to me might be most everyone else's 4 and vice versa.

Heck, just among celebrities, I consider Johnny Depp, George Clooney and Orlando Bloom to be -0-, and Howie Long and Terry Bradshaw to be a -10-. Hard translating that into a generalization for the masses.

Follow-up question to the guys who chose the 9...

How many times per week would you be masturbating?