(November 2, 2012 at 9:30 am)thesummerqueen Wrote: The attraction is deeper that way, and I can fuck with them more. In a good way.

as if there's a bad way

(November 2, 2012 at 11:26 am)Cinjin Wrote:

(November 2, 2012 at 9:30 am)thesummerqueen Wrote: The attraction is deeper that way, and I can fuck with them more. In a good way.

as if there's a bad way

Joking aside, there is - I don't play any games unless the rules are agreed upon before hand.

After that, watch out. Being a sub doesn't mean I don't like watching someone practically whine like a dog in lust.

(November 2, 2012 at 11:26 am)Cinjin Wrote: as if there's a bad way

Actually, yes, there is.

There are some stories I can tell on that subject, comical in retrospect.

I have female friends. But they are all friends by association. For example, wives of male friends. Or my wife's female friends.

I can be friends with them because there is a moral boundary in the way that I will not cross, and so I never allow myself to even view them as a possible partner. However I couldn't imagine being friends with some random female, nature is nature.

(November 2, 2012 at 10:12 pm)Norfolk And Chance Wrote: However I couldn't imagine being friends with some random female, nature is nature.

Out of curiosity: do you have any sisters?

No, LOL.

(November 2, 2012 at 11:07 am)Cinjin Wrote: Maybe I'm weird this way, but my relationships with the opposite sex are either - family, acquaintance, or sexual. I don't do "girl buddies," and any man who does is either playing the friend angle (which rarely ever works) or simply gay.

Kind of ironic that you start out by saying that your position is weird, and then that any man who has female friends is either a liar or gay. I think this is insulting to women and even more insulting to men to say that they are all so immature they can't get over their attraction to women to see the person underneath and be friends with them.

Moreover, there are some cases when you're friends with someone from the beginning, with no sexual attraction whatsoever. Just because you are a man it doesn't mean you are sexually attracted to every woman you see.

I can't be "just friends" with women, because I usually end up sleeping with them. I have lesbian friends, and I'm pretty sure I've tried it on with all of them too. I have also fallen victim to misreading the signals and thinking a female friend is interested, only to find that she is not. Typically, they were always the ones that I wanted to sleep with the most. Damn my luck!