I have to confess that I'm the one that "persuaded" the pope to retire.

(February 11, 2013 at 9:18 pm)Violet Lilly Blossom Wrote: You're not the only one. Unfortunately, my girl is awfully jealous

If she liked you enough, I'm very open...

Mmm... I'd be open to it, too, but I'd worry about your girl. Jealousy doesn't work well in these types of situations.

Me, I don't get jealous. I'll get angry if someone sneaks around behind my back, but they shouldn't have any reason to do that since I'm open to polyamorous relationships. Now if I have agreed to a monogamous relationship and my partner expects me to honor that and then is going after someone else, then I get pissed. I'll give a partner exactly the same amount of freedom as I get back in a relationship.

I don't worry about her very much, we've both had a bit of sex on the side... but as the general rule of thumb: we're supposed to ask each other first (or in my case, just tell me). It's the one and only rule in this relationship

I'm very much a fan of 'a third' as a lifelong partner... her much less so It'd be on her, not me

(February 11, 2013 at 11:02 pm)Violet Lilly Blossom Wrote: I don't worry about her very much, we've both had a bit of sex on the side... but as the general rule of thumb: we're supposed to ask each other first (or in my case, just tell me). It's the one and only rule in this relationship

I'm very much a fan of 'a third' as a lifelong partner... her much less so It'd be on her, not me

Have you ever told her "no" to any partner she may have chosen? If you've never told her no, nor ever will, why have the rule? (or is the rule more for you)
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(February 11, 2013 at 11:11 pm)catfish Wrote: Have you ever told her "no" to any partner she may have chosen? If you've never told her no, nor ever will, why have the rule? (or is the rule more for you)
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Nope, I trust her judgement for the most part. We have that rule because we worry about each other, and she was (at the time) considerably more jealous than she is now.

As for me... I just want to know when not to expect her home, and I love knowing that she's having a good time

Have you gals slept with a lot of the same people. I.E. Do you two have a circle of friends whom are regulars?
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(February 12, 2013 at 12:07 am)catfish Wrote: Have you gals slept with a lot of the same people. I.E. Do you two have a circle of friends whom are regulars?
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Nope, usually it's a one time thing and that's it. She's fucked a few friends and I've... sucked off a roommate. Sigh... I'd totally have fun sexytimes with all of my friends

Thanks, didn't realise this wasn't the "ask a transexual anything" thread though...


confession:
I smoke cigarettes but do not inhale. I sometimes say I'm like Clinton.
I can also blow about 100 tiny smoke rings from one puff.
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(February 12, 2013 at 12:16 am)Violet Lilly Blossom Wrote:

(February 12, 2013 at 12:07 am)catfish Wrote: Have you gals slept with a lot of the same people. I.E. Do you two have a circle of friends whom are regulars?
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Nope, usually it's a one time thing and that's it. She's fucked a few friends and I've... sucked off a roommate. Sigh... I'd totally have fun sexytimes with all of my friends

If only that were a socially acceptable thing to do. Oh wait, I've done that with a couple of my friends... who were a couple...

Still, I would like to do that with more of my friends. I'm thinking of one in particular. I keep hinting to her and her boyfriend that I'm game for dating couples, but I don't think it's sunk in yet.

Should we have a dating forum?

I can't host and you'll have to be dicreet...
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