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RE: What's the point in dating single mothers?
June 2, 2016 at 3:05 pm
Sad as it is, alot of times guys especially young boys get scared when they get a girl pregnant, and bail. Then again alot of times it's the father who man's up and grows up with a kid. Some Mother's don't. It's a mix. When a female gets pregnant, she's a mom for the rest of her life. Some guys can't handle that, but to be fair...neither can some girls. I think it's more about conquering for some. Not true responsibility. I was a single mom for 10 years, but a beautiful man came along and changed everything.
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RE: What's the point in dating single mothers?
June 2, 2016 at 3:06 pm
It's great that the two of you can do that. I have tried several times to be the bigger person and just let my ex say what he wanted to. I did that in order to keep the peace. He has done so much twisting of words and telling lies all over the place that after 11 years, it has taken its toll on me health-wise. I just don't see how a person like that can sleep at night knowing they are literally destroying another human being.
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RE: What's the point in dating single mothers?
June 2, 2016 at 3:48 pm
(June 2, 2016 at 3:06 pm)Nymphadora Wrote: It's great that the two of you can do that. I have tried several times to be the bigger person and just let my ex say what he wanted to. I did that in order to keep the peace. He has done so much twisting of words and telling lies all over the place that after 11 years, it has taken its toll on me health-wise. I just don't see how a person like that can sleep at night knowing they are literally destroying another human being.
I sure feel for you in your circumstances. Believe me, I consider myself lucky for us having found a way past our bitterness, and although your ex- doesn't sound like a guy who gives two shits about anyone but himself, I do hope that you can retrieve your rights as a mother and move on to happier days, hon.
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RE: What's the point in dating single mothers?
June 2, 2016 at 3:55 pm
(June 2, 2016 at 3:05 pm)lanapoland1973 Wrote: Sad as it is, alot of times guys especially young boys get scared when they get a girl pregnant, and bail. Then again alot of times it's the father who man's up and grows up with a kid. Some Mother's don't. It's a mix. When a female gets pregnant, she's a mom for the rest of her life. Some guys can't handle that, but to be fair...neither can some girls. I think it's more about conquering for some. Not true responsibility. I was a single mom for 10 years, but a beautiful man came along and changed everything.
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RE: What's the point in dating single mothers?
June 2, 2016 at 4:48 pm
Thank you
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RE: What's the point in dating single mothers?
June 2, 2016 at 5:25 pm
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In Georgia, shared custody is mandatory unless there are significant reasons to do otherwise. My exhusband wasn't just severely abusive (physically, sexually, and emotionally), he also stabbed me in the stomach during my last pregnancy. Still when I went to the final hearing on my divorce, to find out the decision on custody...I requested full custody of course, the judge said "well you're lucky he didn't show up today, otherwise it'd have likely been 50/50"
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RE: What's the point in dating single mothers?
June 2, 2016 at 5:42 pm
(June 2, 2016 at 5:25 pm)Losty Wrote: In Georgia, shared custody is mandatory unless there are significant reasons to do otherwise. My exhusband wasn't just severely abusive (physically, sexually, and emotionally), he also stabbed me in the stomach during my last pregnancy. Still when I went to the final hearing on my divorce, to find out the decision on custody...I requested full custody of course, the judge said "well you're lucky he didn't show up today, otherwise it'd have likely been 50/50"
Holy crap!!!!!! 
I am sooo sorry. 
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RE: What's the point in dating single mothers?
June 2, 2016 at 5:59 pm
It's in the past for me. It's been almost 4 years and I'm mostly usually moved on from it. My point was only that courts are not completely sexist anymore. Here they really push for shared custody and you're also required to take a course on parenting in a broken family when you get divorced.
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RE: What's the point in dating single mothers?
June 2, 2016 at 6:15 pm
(June 2, 2016 at 5:25 pm)Losty Wrote: In Georgia, shared custody is mandatory unless there are significant reasons to do otherwise. My exhusband wasn't just severely abusive (physically, sexually, and emotionally), he also stabbed me in the stomach during my last pregnancy. Still when I went to the final hearing on my divorce, to find out the decision on custody...I requested full custody of course, the judge said "well you're lucky he didn't show up today, otherwise it'd have likely been 50/50"
So, after all the abuse, if he'd shown up he would have been given shared custody?
How fucked up is that?
And I'm sorry you went through all that, Lost One. The cunt should have been put down for that.
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RE: What's the point in dating single mothers?
June 2, 2016 at 6:16 pm
(June 2, 2016 at 5:25 pm)Losty Wrote: In Georgia, shared custody is mandatory unless there are significant reasons to do otherwise. My exhusband wasn't just severely abusive (physically, sexually, and emotionally), he also stabbed me in the stomach during my last pregnancy. Still when I went to the final hearing on my divorce, to find out the decision on custody...I requested full custody of course, the judge said "well you're lucky he didn't show up today, otherwise it'd have likely been 50/50"
Fucking Georgia.
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