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Poll: How much on average are you doing the deed
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6+ times a week
10.53%
2 10.53%
3-5 times a week
10.53%
2 10.53%
1-2 times a week
36.84%
7 36.84%
1-2 times a month
10.53%
2 10.53%
several times a year or less
31.58%
6 31.58%
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Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
#31
RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
(April 11, 2018 at 2:37 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: You have no option for "not enough".

Sad

Also, for "as much as possible". 

-Teresa
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#32
RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
(April 11, 2018 at 1:54 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Let's not get graphic. Keep it PG-13, as this ain't no A69. Fist thing's first: poll question, mofos! 

Not sure what to answer...
It now comes in spurs of high activity with several weeks of nothing.
High activity goes up to 2~3 times a day for 1 or 2 weeks... and then nothing.

(April 11, 2018 at 1:54 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Follow up with: What does sex mean to you personally?

Mostly fun. Pleasure. And the giving of the same pleasure to the other person.

(April 11, 2018 at 1:54 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Do you like it?

Yes.

(April 11, 2018 at 1:54 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: What is your overall outlook on human sexuality and why?

It is a mess.
At its core, it's all about reproduction... but now that there are way too many people on the planet, it's better to keep that part in check, while recognizing that people still enjoy sex very much and are not ever going to give it up for the sake of preventing reproduction from happening.
Of course, contraceptives are available for that task.... but it seems that some very powerful institutions convince people that those devices are against the natural order and must not be used. The result is a very frustrated population that can lash out with little provocation... that or rampant rape.
Luckily, the west has taken to put those contraceptives to good use and most people end up enjoying a healthy sex life without the extras.
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#33
RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
(April 11, 2018 at 1:54 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Fist thing's first: 

I think Freud just had a bit of a slip.

As for frequency, the missus and I generally bang it out 2-3 times per week.

Boru
‘I can’t be having with this.’ - Esmeralda Weatherwax
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#34
RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
Wow, 3 times per day? We had sex 5 times in a 24 hour period right after we got married, but that's the only time its ever happened more than twice. And twice is still pretty rare.

^response to Cecelia
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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#35
RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
(April 11, 2018 at 7:17 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Wow, 3 times per day? We had sex 5 times in a 24 hour period right after we got married, but that's the only time its ever happened more than twice. And twice is still pretty rare.

^response to Cecelia


Five times in a day once in my first marriage, early on.  Would have been a frequent occurrence if she'd been game more often.  Once a day seemed like meager pickings back then.  Two or three times a week with the missus lasted a pretty long time.  Now I'm entirely happy with once a week.  If I was doing a new relationship I'm sure the frequency would go up for a while.  Rather than letting it become routine, as with eating, now I enjoy noticing an appetite, savoring the experience and then the satisfaction after
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#36
RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
I completely missed out on that part of my human development. Growing up, sex with a disability just felt like a taboo. I have kissed three girls, but this was all when I was 15. 42 now.

Like Jormy, I feel like my fantasy life is quite rich. I do fantasize a lot, and do enjoy fetish websites and such. Especially those that aren't just picture banks, but message boards, where we can all discuss whatever part of sexuality excites us at that moment. Sometimes I feel like I go overboard with it. But maybe it's just me getting my release a different way.

As I get older, I want a relationship less and less. I don't want kids (I can physically have them. I just don't want them). And marriage seems harder to maintain than in previous generations. And I don't want sex outside the confines of a relationship. YMMV. Just a personal thing. I do support how in Canada (Vancouver, at least) there are therapeutic sex providers (I think that's what they are called), who literally help the disabled get off. Again, just not my thing. Great service, though. This part of all of our lives is important.
"For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." - Carl Sagan
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#37
RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
Nonexistent for quite some time. Its not of importance at the moment.
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#38
RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
I'm to old for this shit.

(reaches for the lotion and tissues)
Being told you're delusional does not necessarily mean you're mental. 
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#39
RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
(April 11, 2018 at 5:24 pm)alpha male Wrote: Yeah, I'm a little judgmental. You note yourself that most people would judge you, so that shouldn't be a surprise.

What is there to judge if a person is happy, healthy, and not harming anyone?
Nay_Sayer: “Nothing is impossible if you dream big enough, or in this case, nothing is impossible if you use a barrel of KY Jelly and a miniature horse.”

Wiser words were never spoken. 
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#40
RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
(April 11, 2018 at 8:08 pm)c172 Wrote: I completely missed out on that part of my human development. Growing up, sex with a disability just felt like a taboo. I have kissed three girls, but this was all when I was 15. 42 now.

Like Jormy, I feel like my fantasy life is quite rich. I do fantasize a lot, and do enjoy fetish websites and such. Especially those that aren't just picture banks, but message boards, where we can all discuss whatever part of sexuality excites us at that moment. Sometimes I feel like I go overboard with it. But maybe it's just me getting my release a different way.

As I get older, I want a relationship less and less. I don't want kids (I can physically have them. I just don't want them). And marriage seems harder to maintain than in previous generations. And I don't want sex outside the confines of a relationship. YMMV. Just a personal thing. I do support how in Canada (Vancouver, at least) there are therapeutic sex providers (I think that's what they are called), who literally help the disabled get off. Again, just not my thing. Great service, though. This part of all of our lives is important.

Hmm, interesting. What are your fetishes?

I'm gonna make a few guesses and you gotta tell me if I'm correct. I'm thinking it's either bondage or the one fetish where they wear animal costumes.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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