porn and women

[downbeatplumb]

Of course porn doesn't teach people how to be in relationships. Why should it? It doesn't teach people how to fly a plane either, but I wouldn't say it's bad for airports. If someone is looking for relationship advice in porn, they have much more serious problems that have nothing to do with porn.

So my plumber training isn't going to get me laid then.

[pocaracas]

(switch on the subtitles, if you can't understand a word they say)

[Amarok]

Of course porn doesn't teach people how to be in relationships. Why should it? It doesn't teach people how to fly a plane either, but I wouldn't say it's bad for airports. If someone is looking for relationship advice in porn, they have much more serious problems that have nothing to do with porn.

By the way, I'd suggest that using porn in secret could suggest a problem with a relationship. But I don't see how using it openly and honesty would suggest that at all. Not everyone has the same levels of sex drive, and people don't always feel like having sex at the same time.

I would bet that almost all men watch porn, even (especially ) those who deny it. Does it cause men to objectify women? I'd say no, and that I expect there's no evidence to back that up. There will always be men who have a poor view of women, and since almost all men watch porn, they will likely also watch porn. That doesn't tell you anything. If they select porn in which women are treated a certain way, that's no surprise, is it? Again, if people are looking for advice on how to view and treat women in porn, they have much bigger problems.

And yes, I watch porn. I'm happily married, and my wife is fully aware and has no problem with it.

Edit: A child may not realize that porn isn't supposed to represent real life, and that is the danger. Education is key. But if an adult still doesn't know that porn is essentially fictional, they are as misguided as someone who thinks other fictional shows are real.

Indeed especially the last part . A lack of education is an issue not porn .

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Of course porn doesn't teach people how to be in relationships. Why should it? It doesn't teach people how to fly a plane either, but I wouldn't say it's bad for airports. If someone is looking for relationship advice in porn, they have much more serious problems that have nothing to do with porn.

So my plumber training isn't going to get me laid then.

Well you are learning to lay pipe 

[Rev. Rye]

Of course porn doesn't teach people how to be in relationships. Why should it? It doesn't teach people how to fly a plane either, but I wouldn't say it's bad for airports. If someone is looking for relationship advice in porn, they have much more serious problems that have nothing to do with porn.

So my plumber training isn't going to get me laid then.

Not much more than it will help you learn to defeat a giant turtle dragon in the mushroom kingdom.

[Angrboda]

Seen on another forum. Thought it was relevant.

“A disturbing fact continues to surface in sex abuse research. The first best predictor of abuse is alcohol or drug addiction in the father. But the second best predictor is conservative religiosity, accompanied by parental belief in traditional male-female roles. This means that if you want to know which children are most likely to be sexually abused by their father, the second most significant clue is… whether or not the parents belong to a conservative religious group with traditional role beliefs and rigid sexual attitudes.” p. 73 ‘Sexual abuse in Christian Homes and Churches’. - Carolyn Holderread Heggen

Tassman @ TheologyWeb

[Emmett]

What's wrong with porn? Watch as someone kills can be, but as people engage in love-no!! Strange!!
I wonder if the actors used viagra(https://viagrabestbuy.com/)? Shooting is not one hour!

[MasterX]

Do you think pornography generally has harmful effects on women in our society? 

Curious to know people's opinions.

It has far more negative consequences for men, since men are the one's who have to approach the opposite sex and don't more and more often since you can give up looking and watch porn, it changes the make-up of your brain and how you interact with the opposite sex. I used to love porn, then I learned all the degradation it's doing to me and society and quit.

[The Grand Nudger]

What was pron doing to you......lol?

[MasterX]

What was pron doing to you......lol?

Why is it funny?

It changes the neurological structure of your brain, which effects how you interact with people of the opposite sex. I literally gave several reasons why it can be harmful.

[The Grand Nudger]

Trouble with the ladies, I take it?