Your Ideal Relationship Arrangement

[Angrboda]

I still don't understand this constant desire for sex when FF has said that sex isn't all that satisfying.  Add to that the specification of sex with BEAUTIFUL people.

- I don't really care for that, may I have some more?  Seems an odd approach.

Just because something is unsatisfying doesn't it isn't pleasant or desirable.

I find junk food ultimately unsatisfying.  I still like it.
I pretty much find everything unsatisfying.

[Gawdzilla Sama]

Just because something is unsatisfying doesn't it isn't pleasant or desirable.

I find junk food ultimately unsatisfying.  I still like it.
I pretty much find everything unsatisfying.

Better than "big and green and buck-ass nude".

[FrustratedFool]

Lol.
Maybe I do have a condition.

[Ahriman]

Lol.
Maybe I do have a condition.

I don't find junk food satisfying either. Sex is a different story. Do you not like sex?

[Ravenshire]

Much of this thread reads like a 14 year old boy's jerk-off fantasy.

@FrustratedFool, you claim not to be obsessed with sex, yet you paint an obsessive's view of sexuality, even down to wanting a harem for your personal pleasure. This is why I find your denials of sexual obsession so unconvincing.

[FrustratedFool]

Lol.
Maybe I do have a condition.

I don't find junk food satisfying either. Sex is a different story. Do you not like sex?

Sex is good.  Just unsatisfying.  Not good enough.

[FrustratedFool]

Much of this thread reads like a 14 year old boy's jerk-off fantasy.

@FrustratedFool, you claim not to be obsessed with sex, yet you paint an obsessive's view of sexuality, even down to wanting a harem for your personal pleasure. This is why I find your denials of sexual obsession so unconvincing.

I think I'm just far more open and introspective about my desires than most.  There's no obsession on a particular topic there at all, I'm just more thoughtful and introspective on most things than others.

To me, most of the thread reads like the protestations of people in their 30s who think monogamy is maturity but haven't grappled with their own, or many other people's, more honest and less socially palatable desires.  And also it seems that many are quite vanilla in their relational constructs and lack imagination.  The difference is that I'm fully prepared to accept that is just my perception and not worth anything and so normally avoid saying such things.  It is, after all, rather rude and pointless to express such a ridiculous character assessment about people I know only from a few internet forum posts.  But YMMV.

But if it helps you to think of me as a sex obsessive go ahead.  I probably do have a greater interest in talking about and thinking about sex than most people.

[Ahriman]

Much of this thread reads like a 14 year old boy's jerk-off fantasy.

@FrustratedFool, you claim not to be obsessed with sex, yet you paint an obsessive's view of sexuality, even down to wanting a harem for your personal pleasure. This is why I find your denials of sexual obsession so unconvincing.

I think I'm just far more open and introspective about my desires than most.  There's no obsession on a particular topic there at all, I'm just more thoughtful and introspective on most things than others.

To me, most of the thread reads like the protestations of people in their 30s who think monogamy is maturity but haven't grappled with their own, or many other people's, more honest and less socially palatable desires.  And also it seems that many are quite vanilla in their relational constructs and lack imagination.  The difference is that I'm fully prepared to accept that is just my perception and not worth anything and so normally avoid saying such things.  It is, after all, rather rude and pointless to express such a ridiculous character assessment about people I know only from a few internet forum posts.  But YMMV.

But if it helps you to think of me as a sex obsessive go ahead.  I probably do have a greater interest in talking about and thinking about sex than most people.

Which makes no sense, since you think sex is unsatisfying and not good enough.

[FrustratedFool]

Why does it make no sense?
Like I said, I find most/all things unsatisfying + I think about things (and like talking about things) more than most.

I find local history study unsatisfying, I do it far more than most. Same with literature, philosophy, chess, DnD, ethics, popular science, religion, magic, and a hundred other things. I'm curious about a thousand different things and think and discuss them more than others. Personal sexual satisfaction is irrelevant since I like talking about things. And sex is one of those things.

[Ahriman]

Why does it make no sense?
Like I said, I find most/all things unsatisfying + I think about things (and like talking about things) more than most.

I find local history study unsatisfying, I do it far more than most.  Same with literature, philosophy, chess, DnD, ethics, popular science, religion, magic, and a hundred other things.  I'm curious about a thousand different things and think and discuss them more than others.  Personal sexual satisfaction is irrelevant since I like talking about things.  And sex is one of those things.

......What?