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Dating as an "A word"
June 15, 2014 at 2:47 am
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My experience trying to date as an atheist has been rough. Many, many chicks are so pretentious. You approach and things go well. They automatically assume you're christian. So an invitation to go worship at her church comes up. Or when you make your intentions clear about wanting to date her, "Are you right with the Lord" comes out.
I don't like having to lie. If I did I'd have to go to church and sit with her. Then I have to fake enthusiasm and that's energy sapping. I do go to church to keep the peace at home but I hide. I sit upstairs or right at the back and browse the net on my phone. That's what I'm doing right now in fact. I'm on an atheist site being serenaded by "Jesus Wonder Working God". My family is down stairs so they can't see me not participating. I don't even stand when they say stand. I fake pray when it's prayer time. I can go on and on and on...
But the bitches here are mad fly! It is so frustrating to know you ain't gonna get very far because Jesus gonna cock block. Wow! My neighbour is cute but she goes to one of em uniform wearing churches!!! I'd love to fuck her in that uniform and make her rock up late to church. That'd be hot!!!
Anyway, have any of you guys experienced these issues with the opposite sex? Worst thing is I know they bullshitting. They be just as bad as any non believer.
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RE: Dating as an "A word"
June 15, 2014 at 5:28 am
You sound like a fifteen year old boy 'talking big' for the lads.
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RE: Dating as an "A word"
June 15, 2014 at 5:38 am
You're going about this all wrong, Mason. Tell them you're an atheist, but that it is causing you great angst and misery. Odds are 7-2 that at least of few of these girls will take you into the back room and show you the Holy Ghost in an effort to convert you.
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RE: Dating as an "A word"
June 15, 2014 at 5:39 am
Well, think about it this way: what are the common denominators in all of this, and what can you do to change it up? I'm guessing you live in a conservative, religious area. Can you move? What about where you're meeting chicks? Maybe you could join a meetup group for something you're interested in, but you've never tried. It's obvious you have to stop trying to meet girls in church. It's not worth it, even for the I Popped A Christian Cherry award. Some of those girls are easier than you think, anyway.
Meet women with common interests. That's my advice.
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RE: Dating as an "A word"
June 15, 2014 at 5:45 am
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(June 15, 2014 at 5:28 am)Bad Wolf Wrote: You sound like a fifteen year old boy 'talking big' for the lads.
That's being generous Bad Wolf. Thirteen at the most. 
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RE: Dating as an "A word"
June 15, 2014 at 6:32 am
(June 15, 2014 at 5:39 am)rexbeccarox Wrote: Well, think about it this way: what are the common denominators in all of this, and what can you do to change it up? I'm guessing you live in a conservative, religious area. Can you move?...
It's obvious you have to stop trying to meet girls in church. It's not worth it, even for the I Popped A Christian Cherry award. Some of those girls are easier than you think, anyway.
I'm South African. This is a religious country. Some nut job in parliament just recently wanted to include religion into the law. This is not unlike what people in the States and elsewhere experience politically. With respect to moving...I'd pretty much have to go to another country and that's well beyond my powers at the moment. Religion in the black community is BIG! So it's not just an issue of quitting meeting girls in church. Outside church does help though.
(June 15, 2014 at 5:39 am)rexbeccarox Wrote: What about where you're meeting chicks? Maybe you could join a meetup group for something you're interested in, but you've never tried...
Meet women with common interests. That's my advice.
I'm going to a meetup right now actually. We'll see how it goes. We just finished ordering some booze. My cousins just got told they're not allowed to wear pants. For females it's a dress or skirt because of the host's religious views. It's a blend of African and Christian views. They creep me out.
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RE: Dating as an "A word"
June 15, 2014 at 6:44 am
(June 15, 2014 at 6:32 am)BlackMason Wrote: (June 15, 2014 at 5:39 am)rexbeccarox Wrote: What about where you're meeting chicks? Maybe you could join a meetup group for something you're interested in, but you've never tried...
Meet women with common interests. That's my advice.
I'm going to a meetup right now actually. We'll see how it goes. We just finished ordering some booze. My cousins just got told they're not allowed to wear pants. For females it's a dress or skirt because of the host's religious views. It's a blend of African and Christian views. They creep me out.
Sounds like a wonderful place to meet a Godly wife. You should stop thinking about your own carnal desires, get your heart back on track and go marry the girl God wants for you in your life.
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RE: Dating as an "A word"
June 15, 2014 at 7:13 am
(June 15, 2014 at 6:44 am)Eye of God Wrote: (June 15, 2014 at 6:32 am)BlackMason Wrote: I'm going to a meetup right now actually. We'll see how it goes. We just finished ordering some booze. My cousins just got told they're not allowed to wear pants. For females it's a dress or skirt because of the host's religious views. It's a blend of African and Christian views. They creep me out.
Sounds like a wonderful place to meet a Godly wife. You should stop thinking about your own carnal desires, get your heart back on track and go marry the girl God wants for you in your life.
For all you know, God wants him to marry a dirty-minded slut with silicone tits and a taste for whips and lime gelatin.
Who the hell are YOU to presume to know what God wants?
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RE: Dating as an "A word"
June 15, 2014 at 8:14 am
(June 15, 2014 at 6:44 am)Eye of God Wrote: Sounds like a wonderful place to meet a Godly wife. You should stop thinking about your own carnal desires, get your heart back on track and go marry the girl God wants for you in your life.
Sorry, I'm not looking for marriage. I'm actually at a point where I don't believe in it. It's a man made concept that I believe was born in a time where women were just things to be possesed.
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RE: Dating as an "A word"
June 15, 2014 at 10:21 am
Referring to women as "bitches" isn't conducive to dating.
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