girlish girls, manly men.

[John V]

I'm not trying to tear you down in the sense of shutting you up, bullying you or making you sad.

Good call, as you're not able to do any of those things to real men.

If this attitude towards relationships makes your wife and you happy, I'm actually happy for you, although it is completely mind-boggling to me how anyone would find such a life enjoyable.

To me it's completely mind-boggling that you find it completely mind-boggling that a man would enjoy an adoring wife who gives him great sex on a regular basis.

What gets me is the part where you think everyone else should emulate your shtick,

It's based on nature. There are real differences between the sexes. From your point of view these came about through evolution. If you follow your nature, you're more likely to be happy than if you fight against your nature.

That said, I've also noted that in any discussion of human behavior there are exceptions. But they're exceptions. In general, males will be happier if they're men.

and the only explanation conceivable to you why anyone would not want to do that, is that everybody else must obviously be a sexless fat loser living in their parent's basement watching porn all day, all the while you are talking to grown people with families and careers here. Really, all I'm trying to accomplish here is a shred of self-awareness on your part, and having some fun doing it

Considering that one guy arguing against me has Fat in his name (maybe it references something else, I'm taking it as is), another recently posted about his depression, and the site has a forum dedicated to porn, I'd say my conclusions are reasonable, and you're the one who needs a reality check.

[Alex K]

To me it's completely mind-boggling that you find it completely mind-boggling that a man would enjoy an adoring wife who gives him great sex on a regular basis.

... and you assume we all aren't getting that all the while also living in the 21th century? Cute. (*)

I'm not trying to tear you down in the sense of shutting you up, bullying you or making you sad.

Good call, as you're not able to do any of those things to real men.

Wow, being a real man seems to be some kind of magical superpower.

(*) again, nothing wrong with not getting or wanting sex, jeez. Like there's nothing else in the world...

[Tonus]

I get amazing hand several times a week.

[robvalue]

My willy is even bigger though!

[Alex K]

Considering that one guy arguing against me has Fat in his name (maybe it references something else, I'm taking it as is), another recently posted about his depression, and the site has a forum dedicated to porn, I'd say my conclusions are reasonable, and you're the one who needs a reality check.

Great, you found someone to feel superior to! That's essential for happiness, isn't it. Well done.

[John V]

... and you assume we all aren't getting that all the while also living in the 21th century? Cute. (*)

No, I don't assume it. I read the posts about depression and loneliness, I see Area 69, and I make the reasonable conclusion. I assume that a few of you have what I have, and would bet that those males who do are closer to real men than they might admit on this site.

[robvalue]

I have sex with 3000 people every second.

[Alex K]

... and you assume we all aren't getting that all the while also living in the 21th century? Cute. (*)

No, I don't assume it. I read the posts about depression and loneliness, I see Area 69, and I make the reasonable conclusion. I assume that a few of you have what I have, and would bet that those males who do are closer to real men than they might admit on this site.

You get a terribly skewed picture of what works in society and what not by looking at discussion on message boards. I'd expect a higher proportion of people with problems of some sort to come here because it is easier to communicate if you're having depression, anxiety disorders or autism related issues. Also, you really should be careful with such a simplistic notion of what depression is. If someone has such serious psychological problems, it's not a matter of "manning up" to have it go away. That's a ridiculous proposition. You simply have misconceptions about how human psychology works, what you have is a cartoon version of that. Depression can hit you too if you're unlucky, and if at that point you're still stuck with your stone age concepts of psychology, this nonsense might hurt yourself too because you'll tie it to a failure of your manliness, when it's no such thing.

[FatAndFaithless]

No, I don't assume it. I read the posts about depression and loneliness, I see Area 69, and I make the reasonable conclusion. I assume that a few of you have what I have, and would bet that those males who do are closer to real men than they might admit on this site.

You get a terribly skewed picture of what works in society and what not by looking at discussion on message boards. I'd expect a higher proportion of people with problems of some sort. However, you really should be careful with such a simplistic notion of what depression is. If you have such serious psychological problems, it's not a matter of "manning up" to have it go away. That's a ridiculous proposition. You simply have misconceptions about how human psychology works, what you have is a cartoon version of that.

He's got a cartoon version of that from the 50s.

[Alex K]

Maybe the 50s. I'm not sure about the century or the sign, though.