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Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
On a personal note, I prefer experienced women, because after all those tries, she finally found the good stuff Big Grin
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
(April 21, 2015 at 2:18 pm)paulpablo Wrote:
(April 21, 2015 at 12:23 pm)Judi Lynn Wrote: I'm not interested in arguing with you over the semantics of how the OP was written.

Bottom line: He disrespected his girlfriend not once but twice in two different forums. Whether or not he said her name or where they lived is not the issue. He posted personal, intimate information that she shared with him, on a public forum for others to critique. Clearly he has issues and should probably seek some sort of professional help if he has these sort of deep seeded issues over his girlfriend's past. He brought it here and to TTA seeking out opinions and when he didn't get the advice/opinions that he wanted, he insulted the intelligence of those who responded.

I don't see how disagreeing with someones lifestyle and talking about it on a forum is being disrespectful.
Given the fact that he's now done this in SIX different forums.... I'd call that disrespectful. If you can't see that, then there's something wrong with you.
You completely miss the point I, along with others, were making. And I'm not going to rehash this again with you. I can only hope any person you are in a relationship with doesn't end up getting intimate conversations they have with you, splattered all over a public forum to be analyzed by a bunch of strangers.
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(November 14, 2018 at 8:57 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: Have a good day at work.  If we ever meet in a professional setting, let me answer your question now.  Yes, I DO want fries with that.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
The OP will blow a gasket when he learns about his lady friend's acting career:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up641ld-Ur4
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(April 20, 2015 at 3:16 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: The whole point of castigating the OP was the attitude towards her. I've a fairly good feeling that if someone had come on here complaining that her boyfriend didn't have any prior experience, she'd get the same treatment - that is to say, "um, hello, maybe start talking to them about it if it's that important to you?" The people on this forum are, in general, good people who think you should at least make a passable attempt at treating your partners with respect and honesty, double standards be damned.

Actually, I was saying he was the one with double standards. I'm in complete agreement with you.

The rest of my post was some rambling musings, some of which offered sympathetic advice to talk about what to expect going forward in his relationship. Once again, I'm proven to have a habit of giving people way to much benefit of the doubt. He's clearly a troll and, going forward, I'm assuming his relationship is a work of fiction. 
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
(April 21, 2015 at 2:45 pm)Esquilax Wrote:
(April 21, 2015 at 2:18 pm)paulpablo Wrote: I don't see how disagreeing with someones lifestyle and talking about it on a forum is being disrespectful.
If an atheist on this website posted that they were in a relationship with a Muslim and they didn't realize at first how serious they were about being a Muslim and their religion in general would you complain and call them islamophobic and be outraged over their disrespect of their Muslim boyfriend?
I have a friend who's mother cheated on her husband with the husbands brother.  Also the persons actual brother has had multiple stripper girlfriends and STDs.  It doesn't matter that I'm giving you this info because you don't know me, you don't know my friend, it just simply doesn't matter.
I could type down 4 random numbers and they will probably be someones bank card pin details and so again I'll be giving you private information about someone you don't know but it effects no one.
And if you had an intimate conversation with a loved one in a private setting, and the first thing that loved one did is turn around and regurgitate the details of that conversation to a group of strangers in order to justify his breaking up with you, instead of talking to you directly... you don't see how any part of that might be disrespectful?
Not really. If someone did it to me I wouldn't be effected emotionally because no one on the forum would know who I was.  And if a girl said she was intimidated/disgusted by my sexual history it wouldn't bother me either.  Girls are very often intimidated and disgusted by my sexual history because I am admittedly a massive kinky sex freak and proud of it. 
I wouldn't feel disrespected if they expressed their dislike of my sexual history on a forum, they can't control how they feel, it's their life, and if they want to talk about it anonymously on a forum it's up to them.


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(April 21, 2015 at 5:48 pm)paulpablo Wrote: Girls are very often intimidated and disgusted by my sexual history

Sigh...
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
Psalm 14, KJV revised edition

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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
(April 21, 2015 at 5:52 pm)Alex K Wrote:
(April 21, 2015 at 5:48 pm)paulpablo Wrote: Girls are very often intimidated and disgusted by my sexual history

Sigh...

yawn


Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.

Impersonation is treason.





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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
(April 21, 2015 at 1:26 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: Yeah, that would kinda put a damper on the romance, although I can think of a few fetish games to play.

Spanish Inquisition with safe words? 





OK, I'm not sure how this routine might work in that kind of context but it would be awfully entertaining. 
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
Well it seems that the person that started this thread has been in and out of here several times today, with ZERO further comments being made.

Quit lurking and contribute to your own post if you don't want to be seen as a troll. Oops... too late. You are already seen as a troll.

I foresee a swinging banhammer in his future.
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(November 14, 2018 at 8:57 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: Have a good day at work.  If we ever meet in a professional setting, let me answer your question now.  Yes, I DO want fries with that.
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Meh. Hit and run doesn't necessarily get the ban hammer.

It is completely up to him.
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