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RE: Single after 1 year and 4 months :S
July 8, 2015 at 10:06 am
(July 8, 2015 at 9:51 am)Atheist_BG Wrote: Really? I don't believe that. Even I caught fish twice, altough it was so long ago I can hardly remember what did the first one look like.
What so you're saying every human being on this planet finds love? If that were the case dating sites wouldn't be a thing.
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RE: Single after 1 year and 4 months :S
July 8, 2015 at 10:21 am
(July 8, 2015 at 9:03 am)Atheist_BG Wrote: (July 8, 2015 at 8:43 am)EvidenceVersusFaith Wrote: My first GF, who I got engaged to and was extremely close to.... split up with her a week ago, the first of this month....
Was with her a year and four months.... Never had a GF before her.... it feels like losing an arm.
The hardest part is I am still living her as we live in a joint tenancy.
Don't really have many IRL friends at all.... and none I am in regular contact with.
I miss you guys and I am sorry I've been busy for so long. <3
I don't understand - are you bragging or are you complaining? If you're bragging - congratulations. If you're complaining - there's a lot of fish in the Ocean, mate. Neither I'm just rather down in the dumps and feel like I need to express myself.
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RE: Single after 1 year and 4 months :S
July 8, 2015 at 1:25 pm
Sorry to hear this. It must be tough living with someone after breaking up with her. Do you have a long lease that is going to keep you stuck together for a while?
Not knowing any of the details (and no, this is not a disguised way of asking for them), I have no idea whether trying to move out as soon as possible would be best, or trying to get back together. I would guess that one of those would be the desired goal at this point.
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RE: Single after 1 year and 4 months :S
July 8, 2015 at 2:58 pm
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Unfortunately we really aren't going to get back together. Definitely not.
We are stuck LIVING together for the forseeable future though, because neither of us has **anyone** (EDIT: I meant anywhere, Rhythm is correct) else to go yet.
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RE: Single after 1 year and 4 months :S
July 9, 2015 at 3:24 am
Sorry man, but it really doesn't say a lot about either of you if the only reason you are still together is because one hasn't found a new person yet!
Is it money probs, lifestyle, hobbies, etc
I was a spoilt little shit of a boyfriend when I was young. Looking back, I'm surprised we lasted as long as we did...
Good luck anyway...
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RE: Single after 1 year and 4 months :S
July 9, 2015 at 3:26 am
Think that was a typo, anywhere, or anyplace. Probably be less of a hassle sleeping outside.
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RE: Single after 1 year and 4 months :S
July 9, 2015 at 7:09 am
We're not still "together" together we're just living together. We'd never stay as a couple merely due to being flatmates.
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RE: Single after 1 year and 4 months :S
July 9, 2015 at 9:05 am
(July 8, 2015 at 9:51 am)Atheist_BG Wrote: (July 8, 2015 at 9:27 am)Napoléon Wrote: Aye, at least he had a catch, even if it got away. Some of us have never caught a damn thing.
Really? I don't believe that. Even I caught fish twice, altough it was so long ago I can hardly remember what did the first one look like.
Not to brag, but I did catch some crabs once.
Seriously, welcome back to the fold. Best of luck IRL too.
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RE: Single after 1 year and 4 months :S
July 9, 2015 at 9:28 am
Sorry to hear that, Evie.
I had a terrible roommate once. (I wasn't sleeping with him, so it is different) but we were living together after having a huge blowout for about 8 months. We didn't say a word to each other.
You learn each other's schedule. You stick to your side of the apartment. Hopefully after things calm down a bit, you can talk and at least be cordial. My roommate and I never were, but maybe you can be.
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