(August 29, 2015 at 2:09 am)rexbeccarox Wrote:(August 29, 2015 at 1:43 am)excitedpenguin Wrote: You either rely on your father and therefore need to put up with his personality for the time being or you don't and you make yourself suffer needlessly. Either way crying about it won't change a thing. Your father is who he is and I perfectly understand where you're coming from because of my personal experience, but you need to actively seek solutions instead of destroying your health with him. My encouragements stand as they are but they are not enough. I get the feeling that you're way too confortable with merely wallowing in self-pity(so to speak).
Also, your problems are trivial - don't blow them out of proportion. Life is harsh and some people are difficult to live with. Big deal. Get over yourself and try to find a sollution. There is no such thing as unconditional happiness.
Where do you get that he's not doing everything you've suggested?
Because of his detailed response to my suggestions? It seems he did try but didn't put any soul into it. That's all.
