Are you kind only to those who are kind to you?

[Thumpalumpacus]

On another forum, I'm able to use "contacts and friends" to regulate my inbox content. I've had to do just that a couple of times there, but here and at TTA, I don't have those problems.  Then again, I'm not a female online, which is a factor I'm sure adds to your stress and whatnot.

if you only knew

I do, in a way: I was in a long relationship with a woman I met online who told me a lot about that rowing -- and way back in the AOL days, I experimented with female names in order to see how the internet experience might be different vis gender ... and it is.