I pretty well agree with what others have been saying, that you need to wait and see. She may be placating her parents, or it may be a short-term lapse of sanity. For either of those, you have to wait and see. Be nice to her; there has recently been a death in the family. But don't make any longterm plans with her until you see how this is going to turn out.
Your case reminds me of why I would never date anyone who is not an atheist. I mean a strong atheist, not one of those wimpy weak atheists. The last thing I want is to be emotionally connected to a person who has shit for brains. I don't care if the person was raised Muslim, Christian, or whatever, but I would not ever date any woman who is not a complete atheist. People's beliefs can wax and wane, so if they are just okay for the moment, that is not a good sign for them staying okay for the future. Of course, they might, but your story is also showing how things can go bad. Still, wait and see, and then decide what to do.
I held out for a nice atheist woman, and have been happily married for over 20 years. If I were ever in a position in which I was dating again, I would again hold out for a nice atheist woman. I would much rather be alone than to have to deal with someone with shit for brains. How you live your life, of course, is for you to decide.
But I recommend that you be patient and see how things go, since you are already involved with her.
Your case reminds me of why I would never date anyone who is not an atheist. I mean a strong atheist, not one of those wimpy weak atheists. The last thing I want is to be emotionally connected to a person who has shit for brains. I don't care if the person was raised Muslim, Christian, or whatever, but I would not ever date any woman who is not a complete atheist. People's beliefs can wax and wane, so if they are just okay for the moment, that is not a good sign for them staying okay for the future. Of course, they might, but your story is also showing how things can go bad. Still, wait and see, and then decide what to do.
I held out for a nice atheist woman, and have been happily married for over 20 years. If I were ever in a position in which I was dating again, I would again hold out for a nice atheist woman. I would much rather be alone than to have to deal with someone with shit for brains. How you live your life, of course, is for you to decide.
But I recommend that you be patient and see how things go, since you are already involved with her.
"A wise man ... proportions his belief to the evidence."
— David Hume, An Enquiry Concerning Human Understanding, Section X, Part I.
