Feeling pretty gutted

[MTL]

So she is so much a piece of shit she uses her own child as leverage? That's just fucking low. What I think you need to do is send a clear message saying " I am will not take your bullshit anymore! " also talk to your mother, have an adult and heart to heart conversation. Of course maybe you should not listen to me here, I'm the sort of asshole that might get violent in these situations.

Yep, she is that much of a piece of shit.  When I finally got mad, this weekend, and told her she was a piece of shit, she told me I was "abusive".

This is the same girl who had the chance to move home and help mom with the business,
but laughed in Mom's face;

but then issued Mom an Ultimatum:

"Get rid of MTL or you and I are finished. "

How is it her place to object to Mom getting help from me,
after she turned Mom down?!

And not caring that Mom had been working toward this dream for 15 years, and had invested everything in it,
and had no-one to help her, but me....if I left, mom was screwed. She'd lose the house.

YET my sister claims that SHE is the one "looking out for my parents" and defending them against big bad MTL,
who will "take advantage of them".

Even though I only agreed to three years, maximum, but stuck around through 6 years of difficulties,
paid them room & board, did the work of four people or more, for FREE, for 2 years,
AND put the last of my savings into the business....

....while my sister contributed:  ZERO.

In fact she only came home to use their house as a vacation house, and always left a mess behind herself.

And this is AFTER I spent two years caring for a boyfriend who was sick,
when I wanted to break up with him after 6 months of dating,
because he had no-one else to help him,

and at the same point in time, my sister was living RENT-FREE,
FOR THREE YEARS,
IN DOWNTOWN TORONTO
at the house of her boyfriend's grandfather...a man who owed her NOTHING...when she was capable of supporting herself,
and she complained about his house the whole time,
and I was the one who had to suggest she buy the old man a Thank You gift, when she left.

....yet she ridiculed me for caring for a guy whom I owed nothing.

Oh you have no idea what a piece of shit she is.

YET I HAVE BEEN NICE TO HER AND TRIED TO BEFRIEND HER.