Pretty much in the closet. My family is fundie, so I make a point to not discuss religion with them. And everyone I meet where I'm living now seems to open with some kind of scripture quote, so I just kind of smile and nod there. I need a new venue to meet some people.
A couple of my husband's relatives know, since we're fairly close and they are also non-religious.
I'd like to be mostly out, with religion not up for discussion with my family. They know we don't go to church, don't pray before meals, and didn't baptize our kid, so it shouldn't be that big of a leap, but I'm afraid an actual admission of atheism would break my parents.
A couple of my husband's relatives know, since we're fairly close and they are also non-religious.
I'd like to be mostly out, with religion not up for discussion with my family. They know we don't go to church, don't pray before meals, and didn't baptize our kid, so it shouldn't be that big of a leap, but I'm afraid an actual admission of atheism would break my parents.