Struggling with Catholic Partner

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The kids thing is a big concern.

My son is 10 and her son is 5.

In the past 6 months my 10 year old son has been introduced to the words 'f**k, S**t, F*rt' and been kicked and punched by a 5 year old instead of 'hello & thank you' during the few visits.

It drives me bonkers as my partner is a teacher - but thinks this is normal - and doesn't accept this is an issue.

Should I be seeking advice from a parenting site to save our relationship? Or should I walk away?

Hmm, that's difficult. I'd be worried if she's fine with him just hitting people. But it's hard to tell without more info as to how serious it is.